Good morning steemians.
There is a quotation in phillipines saying "what childs see in adults they think that it is right" so always be careful of your words and actions. We parents are the one who is molding our child/ren personalities. How we raised them is how or who will be they are in the future so raised your child wisely.
I believe that what your child/ren sees on you (parents) they will addapt it. So always be careful on your actions and words that being used. I heard my son saying the word "stupid" i ask him where he learned or heard that you know what he said? He said that he heard it from me! I felt shy to my son i told him that he should not say that because it was bad and i say that because im already big (adult). And since then i didn't say it again in front of my son.
We sometimes forget that our little boss are watching us because we are pre occupied of so many things. That sometimes we are being not a good example to them. We are only humans that always do mistakes there is no such a perfect parents and nor a perfect childs too. But it is our obligation to our children to raised them properly so they will be a good person when they grow old. Home is the first school of a child and we parents are their first teacher.
We also have this 4 years old neighborhood that always says cursed words. Whenever he is mad he would shout cursed word. I felt alarmed because he was my sons playmate and what if my son also says that because he heared it on his playmate? There's a big possibility on that. So i talk to my son and said that he should not say that word because it is bad and if i heard him say that i would not going to buy him toys. I made my son a promised that he would not say that. You know why my 4 years old neighborhood always says cursed word? Because his father always says that even for no particular reason its just like an expression to him. And when they heard it on their son they would just laugh.
I am not being a hypocrite here i know that a lot of people says cursed words and its fine with me. What i am trying to say is that a child doesn't know the meaning of it. They think that saying cursed words is fine because they heared it from their parents or some adults. We also cannot isolate our children on hearing or seeing bad things what we need to do is try to explain things to them so they would understand what is good and what is bad.
If you want your child to be a good child be a good parent first. We will never be a perfect parents there is no one and we do have our different styles and ways on raising our children. But i do believe that we parents will do our best and give all that we can for our little naughty childs.
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