We should all strive for difference. Please consider this question in the next article.
Being different makes life exciting.
Be yourself without fear of being different. Have individuals who respect and support you. True love comes from people who don't try to change you.
Different people breach norms. We sense their enthusiasm for novelty and challenge.
Coco Chanel once stated, “to be irreplaceable, you have to be different”. This is hard, regardless of our beliefs. People who disobey or express themselves are always targeted.
Life is more fascinating if we take the plunge and forget that we must “all be the same”. This outlook is unhealthy and will never provide happiness.
We should all strive to be distinctive. We want consideration.
We all have hidden wants, thoughts, hobbies, dreams, and desires. We worry others may be surprised or reject us.
Our education and occasionally environment are especially contemptuous of novelty.
Dress, ideals, politics, sexual orientation, and friendships or family connections can prohibit us from being ourselves out of fear. Not wanting to be rejected.
He who hides his desires and identity lives others' lives. Reflect on difference. Well worth it.
This is reality. Most of us follow this “life script” whether we like it or not. Becoming like others requires ongoing work. This allows us to integrate and be accepted.
Acceptance balances us and guarantees emotional pleasures from others. If we accept a job they like, our parents are thrilled. Our pals like going to such parties with us.
When we think about it, we realise that we spend a lot of time attempting to fit the “script of life” by deferring our desires, desires, and fears because they differ from what others expect.
We drift from our genuine selves daily. We abandon our self-image to build a life raft that drifts at others' whim. We inhabit an unreal bubble. Eventually, this charade will cause existential crisis or melancholy.
Read Good people give enjoyment, Bad people give lessons.
Be yourself and don't hide!
Who has never worn a proper mask? Sometimes we use it to disguise sadness...
Most invisible armour hides severe frustration, but certain masks are vital. The latter comes from our true desires and our inability to achieve them.
Why not be different? Consider it an opportunity rather than a threat. Never mind your age or the disguise on your face.
Consider the difference a personal investment that will boost your energy, vitality, creativity, and happiness.
To do this and take the jump, surround yourself with people you can be yourself with. Avoid those who critique you, don't accept you, and raise their eyebrows when you make a funny or original comment.
Avoid those who don't get your sense of humour, condemn you, and limit you when all you want is to travel the route of freedom illuminated by a horizon of opportunity where your name train passes every day.