Why Keep Self-Care and Self-Love at the Center of Your Life

in life •  2 months ago 

You did the toughest thing by leaving an abusive relationship! A relationship can leave you psychologically and physically damaged, making it hard to feel good again. We will offer techniques to heal and refocus during this process.

Leaving this type of abusive relationship can cause a range of unpleasant feelings. Remember that these are normal and not unique to you. After a breakup, you may feel intensely the following.

Positive feelings are also possible. You may feel liberated and strong after a tremendous war. Some days you may feel secure and joyful about your choices, while others you may feel unhappy and scared and question everything again. Remember that everything is part of the process.

When escaping an abusive relationship, the initial thought is not to improve. They struggle greatly in their own world. Each person's experience and recovery process are unique.

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Healing is nonlinear. In other words, you may go through days, weeks, or months of ups and downs, occasionally falling and getting up. Here are some strategic initiatives we recommend for this period.

Unless you feel safe, you can't refocus on your life after leaving a violent or abusive relationship. You should avoid contact with your ex. Including virtual platforms You should seek assistance from institutions that will protect you during this procedure. These will make you feel in charge.

Experts recommend setting limits during and after a relationship. You prioritise your needs and boundaries above all else. Of course, this does not violate others' rights and limitations. You should communicate your demands and boundaries openly. Give yourself time and distance after the relationship. You can remove your ex-partner from social media if needed. Knowing your ex-partner cannot reach you on social media will help you focusses on your life and make you feel safer.

People need self-love and self-care. Because even after leaving an abusive relationship, people who live without them are vulnerable to another abuser. Reflect on your emotions. Keeping a journal can help now. You can also resume or start new activities. Spend more time with loved ones.

No need to go through the aforementioned steps alone. This process is natural, and you should obtain support from loved ones. Support during recovery makes you stronger and more “alive.” Your family, friends, and therapist can join this amazing support group. An abusive relationship can alienate a person from family and friends. Seeing them again will be amazing. They can comfort you and restore your self-esteem.

Imagine going backwards on a busy street to get there. This simulation features a trusted buddy who holds your hand and can look ahead. No matter how much your friend helps, you will strike something and tumble. Look back when walking. Please live for the future instead of the past. No progress can be made by gazing back.

Unfortunately, abusive relationship healing time is unknown. But creating a safe living space, working on self-love, seeking therapy, setting boundaries, joining support groups, and learning about abuse will speed up the healing process. Even if a loved one hurts you, leaving them is hard. Stop criticising and yelling at yourself during this process. You're not alone. You will heal and gain strength.


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