Hmmmmm, good questions.... let me think--
is a touch choice between three things, being around my kids when we are all together, learning new things, and dancing tango Argentino. I will have to go with the last one I think. Although I love my children for the people they turned out to be, there is always that being their mom thing, lots of memories, old pains and wishes for the future.
The learning stuff I will do until I die, either fysical or mentally, its great to learn and combine knowledge, but it is also something that is an inside job. And sometimes it is a necesity not just fun.
But dancing with the right dance partner is very humbling. You have to be completely present to read what the other is offering for you to follow. As soon as I enter into my head, I notice that I am less present in the here and now. When everything clicks, it is like being moved and directed. My legs being danced by the other person, total submission to the music and the dance. A lovestory, a tragedy, a bit of humor, it can all be there....... That feeling is the most pure extatic me I can be.I promissed myself I would never let someone break my heart again, I broke my promiss, he broke my heart....
I spend time on Steemit because I want to learn what it is all about, it seems promissing. But it is a steep learning curve for me. And so number 1 is back when it comes to fun things.....
Thank you for making me ponder these questions!!!