In a world such as the one that we live in that is full of chaos, dissapointments, betrayal, malice and friends who we feel are backstabbers and cannot be trusted. Its not surprising that many people are begining to loose intrest in life and people in general.
Many Individuals are now overwhelmed by dissapointments and people who have wronged them to the extent that they are now very skeptical to open up to new people, ideas and opportunities coming there way.
It is very understandable why a person will feel this way, if u have gone through some of life harsh experiences like a cheating wife. Then its only normal that maybe you should give less trust to your new partner. Or if you have been scammed in a bussiness deal before, you become more suspicious when next you are involved in bussiness with strangers.
Having these doubts shows that we are human and that we are learning from the lessons that life has to offer us. But however sometimes we can take this lessons too far and generalise our bad experiences on eveything and everyone. Your new wife which is dedicated and loyal now gets to suffer for the sins of your ex wife who wasnt faithful just because you now have a negative outlook on life .
We should all take note that in life everyone is not the same, generalisation of opinion have been one of the causes of hatred and thrift. We should be able to have a positive outlook on life, expect the best instead of the worst from individuals and situation we come across, while still been careful.
The human mind is a very powerful tool. if your mind is set on the negative then it become hard for you to see the positive side of life, your job and the people around you just becomes scaring.
We can all have and keep a positive outlook on life if we are:
COURAGEOUS AND BOLD: having the knowledge that life is not perfect gives us the strength to be able to deal with its up and downs. Knowing that life circumstances are not always in our control leaves us with the choice to just accept, understand and keep moving on with the right attitude.
STOP WORRYING:worrying is a complete waste of time and does not solve any problem, instead of worrying we should learn how to deal with situations and move on quickly.
TAKING LIFE ONE STEP AT A TIME: We should deal with circumstances and people one step at a time.
Knowing that people are different our approach on how we deal with them should also be different.
These way we can rid our minds from negativity why having a more positive outlook on life.