Don't fake it

in life •  7 years ago  (edited)


If you are not yet rich, don't fake it. What it cost you faking it can be used as a foundation to get riches. 

Don't fake love, you might be missing out on true love because you are faking loving someone you don't. 

Don't  fake you don't love someone when you really do. Saying "I love you"  won't cost a thing. If the person doesn't reciprocate your love, move  on. But most times, the ones we secretly admire also want us secretly. 

Don't fake humility. Accept the fact that you have to work on yourself to be humble.

If you want something, don't pretend you don't want it. 

Why do people fake it in the first place? 

Pride, arrogance, competition, peer pressure and other people's opinion. 

Free yourself from the above and you'll begin to live a real, peaceful and happy life.

Fake has four letters just as real 

Guess what? Most times when you fake it, people know it's not real. They only  play along with you to help you fool yourself more. 

You can quit faking it and have the real deal. 

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People who fake things have a big complex problem. But that is not the best, working on yourself to make you better is best. Thank you so much for sharing.

Thank you for reading.

EXCELLENT

Truer words were never spoken. U said it all. Fake life, fake love doesn't pay. In the long run it only leads to an unfavorable outcome. Be urself and be real in all things. Great post, Thanks for sharing

Thank you for reading.

Nice words ma, thanks for sharing this thoughtful post

Thank you for reading.

This is so true.

If you fake love, you might as well be missing out on true love.

I mean there's enough love to go around so no need faking.
Thank you for sharing this.

Thanks for reading.

This is the part I love most

If you are not yet rich, don't fake it. What it cost you faking it can be used as a foundation to get riches.

Because someone wants to fool people he/she is rich, will goan rent a house of 600k, hire a car of 100k even when he doesn't know what to eat for the rest of the month...😕

Good write up👍

@oogowinner I'm glad I woke up to this thanks to @ginabot.
Its a Saturday, I will key unto this.
They are strong words. "only the wise eat it once".
Haha. Thanks for writing this to all of us.
Dear all,
Writing is good here, I love it here but low visibility of good writing is telling on me.
Stay steemy.

HAPPY STEEM SATURDAY 👌👌😉😉

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@oogowinner nope.
I don't use any bot service to comment.
Lol.
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What I meant is that I woke up, toke my phone and saw @ginabot notifying me of your now post.
I don't fake it😃Screenshot_2018-02-24-10-30-32.png

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Thank you.

Words, nice, the funny part is that many know we are faking all that but they chose to make the movie a seasonal one. Also in love, some got afraid to even be real by making approach to say I love you. Reason, it may cost arrest, flag or even worst to that. Why even if I say, sometimes fake exposure clicks and connects to reality one needs to succed. Lol, I just want to hear more from you.

Who's going to flag you for processing love? Lol!

Thanks for reading.

Well, we don't know who but truth ,it's still functional part many never said so.....

Very true

People fake alot of things and at a time forget what they are... Some will say undercover

Lol! The stress that comes with faking it is not worth it at all. Thanks for reading.

very true. Too much stress. :)

You are very right at ogowinner,i will admit that i was once a victim of this,there was a time i was involved in a relationship,and i dont love this guy a bit but i was faking love ,i would tell him i love him but deep down i know i dont,why,because of what people will say,because i dont want to make his family feel bad,but later i found out that it does not pay at all,i had to call off the relationship,fake live does not pay at alll,you wont even feel ok,tell God i later confess to him,am happy right nao,and he is happy with his girlfriend too

Wow! I guess you were telling him you loved him out of pity. It's a good thing you later told him the truth.

Ps:) @switmag why didn't you upload a profile picture? Make we see your beautiful face Abeg. Lol!

Lol,i will

Why fake it? Why deceive yourself? That is folly of the highest order, really, be yourself, be real, be original. People will appreciate you more for it. Thank you dear for sharing.
I want to use this opportunity to say thank you so much for always showing me so much love, you are one in a million.

You're welcome ma'am. Thanks for always visiting my blog too.

You are welcome dear

Most people do fake things ..fake is a thing that has been misused and is like a normal thing now..you have said it all. "Don't fake what you are not" nice one ..

You are a really talented writer @ogoowinner. You know how to captivate the hearts of your readers. That's a nice skill.
Keep it up babe

You only have useful things to Respect you.

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@ogoowinner, faking it is totally a false representation of one's personality and reputation, mature and valuable people can't fake it because faking it is faking running their personality

they try to fake it to make it but it will lead them to now where

so cool

million words. thanks for sharing :)

Thank you for reading.

Awesome words of wisdom, @ogoowinner :) ...
DON"T FAKE IT ... three simple words that are a foundation to building something real :) 🙂

It actually cost more faking you are then been real as it involves everything about you, it requires energy time and stress because you have to take pretending to be who you are not. There is nothing that pays more than be real to yourself

right now in our so called civilized world, fake life has been the order of the day. Most people are not rich but they want to prove or show that they belong.

they go and rent :-

Apartment
Car
Clothes

Even in most ladies sorry to say, they go and take snapshot in hotel and the rest sending to friends or lovers that they are either this or that. Fake life will not take us to any where but the end is always shameful and ugly**.

You don't have to deceive people, when you don't have it, you don't. Don't fake it
Thank you

Fuck fake life

Fakers everywhere...

The mistake people make when they first meet is to show an image of who they are not.
A classique example is to pretend to enjoy everything the other person likes when in actual fact, they could not be more disinterested - then they wonder why the relationship breaks up later when it is found out that it was all a lie.
People need to be REAL.
Great post thanks for sharing.

While other school of thought said, "Fake it until you make it." But the truth is being fake is so much hard work. While being real is just natural and requires the least effort.

Some people tend to fake it when probably if they show how they really feel the person might not give them listening ears or take them for a joke.

But finally faking it doesn't help; it makes matter worse. I for one hate fake people around me and on a look out, there are more of fake girls than guys.

I really liked keep in Takagi spirit

Well yes that is indeed the case at some stage people do go with the flow!But as for the time goes it is better and god to avoid being fake and be real in each and every case !

Is good to be original great post @ogoowinner

Aptly written!
Aptly delivered!!

Thanks to the womderwoman @ogoowinner

...and don't fake to be good, you might end up forgetting the best of you. In fact, when we pretend to be good always, we don't learn because our mistakes is a teacher for tomorrow's decisions. Nice one@ogoowinner

INTERESTING

Being fake can easily ruin ones life,thanks for sharing @ogoowinner

I did fake it in the past. And what I was trying to prove others was that I am a strong woman at all cost. I didn't show hurt, I was denying the fact that I feel vulnerable. It all blew up last year when I had what I call an "emotional awakening" and finally understood what being real is all about. It helped me tremendously in transforming my life and get better in coaching business I am currently building. I like your post. It's honest and straightforward.