It's not easy to be a dad. I saw my dad passed through a lot of unhappy mood raising us. He hardly complain but I saw his heart complained those times he could not provide us what we
asked for.
Some dads don't care, so am focusing on caring dads who make time to always be there for their children.
A man has more to think about when he becomes a dad unlike when he was still a bachelor; I mean when he was still without responsibilities.
Dad's pain could be from his care. You need to make sacrifice to please children and anyone. Checking and making sure they sleep in good position every night when they go to bed. Taking then out on holidays. Not that he has no other things to do but to be a good dad to the children and a good man to his wife.
I can always say my dad is a caring man because he would not eat to see us eat while growing up.
In spite of the smile he wears on his face for us to see a happy dad. There were pains caused
by the children too. Pain of not having enough money to buy the things that the family will be happy with plus drugs when Thomas was sick.
Pain of dad from wife too. It takes a God fearing man to be faithful to his wife. Some wives are getting on the nerves of their men and adding to their pains. A dad had to struggle and do work everyday to put food on the table for his family. He is the head of the family and so has some obligations to do certain things for the family.
His wife is to support him for the upkeep of the family. Marrying is an added responsibility to every man. Every man need to have it in his brain before planning to marry. Whenever you want something do work to get it done happily.
Pain of a dad was written base on what I have seen from my dad and my uncle. Am not yet married but will soon.