For many years, I've been involved in substantial research of the communication process between people. When I'm undertaking research, I frequently take a step back and study others and myself. Who says what, why they say it, and what they are seeking to accomplish, as well as what kind of impact they create on me, are all important questions to consider. While observing for an extended amount of time, I regulate my own perceptions. In reaction to what I notice, people sometimes say things like, "I was going to swallow my small tongue out of surprise," but even that is too light a response.
I notice a significant communication problem in everyone, regardless of whether they are educated or uneducated, young or old, child or adult, male or female. No one appears to be bothered by this communication failure. It's as though each individual is only as alive as his or her unique way of thinking. It engages in conversation with one another but does not appear to be aware of the other's presence. When people don't hear what they want to hear, they either run away or pronounce you to be angry. Attempts to get one's own point of view recognised while making a persistent effort to provide guidance appear to be the prevalent strategy..
The feeling is that everyone is in a competition with everyone else, assessing what happens outside of them with defences and explanations or complaints and accusations, while hiding themselves a lot... “Take a look at me! Please consider what I'm saying! I just adore you! “I appreciate your concern for my well-being!” It appears that they are fleeing from the true truth, from what is good for them, and from the genuine opportunities that are presented to them while they scream.
First and first, I performed a comprehensive investigation to see whether they were my own thoughts; yes, social conventions do have a role in shaping this point of view. "You don't see what you don't have; what you see is your reflection," says spiritualism, which started the trend. In my lengthy examination, I realised that there were no reflections of myself because if there were, I would be reading people's personalities, judging them, and forming an opinion about them, which would be counterproductive. I'd do a first-person investigation. As a result, I was able to rule out the possibility of my own reflections because I was simply staring at the scene as though I were watching a movie, without commenting or debating.
After analysing a vast amount of data, I decided to start working with Human Design information since, according to Human Design, "each aura type has its own style of existence and decision-making." One of two outcomes is possible: either they live according to their own functioning or they live according to societal norms. In looking into aura kinds, I observed that the situation stayed the same even when the types were not identical, and that the only option was to live with conditioning because all of the words were almost identical.
I began my inquiry by snooping around on public transit and keeping an eye out for clues. The same terminology were being used by dozens of people who didn't know one another, whether they were talking to the person next to them or on the phone with them. "Just-just!" might be an example. ""I said!" I exclaimed. "I'm not sure what you're talking about." "Can you explain?"" "They are unable to comprehend," the narrator continues. You might be wondering, "How does he do it?" “Can you tell me what he has to say?” The narrator screams, "Unscrupulous!" as the storey unfolds.
Besides that, I'd come home and turn on the television, seeking for the same expressions in women's programs, news broadcasts, and television shows, eventually reaching number 100 in my quest for them. To be certain, I needed observations that were extremely likely to occur. According to what you can see, I'm arguing that I did not make any statements without first making a number of observables. I can have pleasure with numerous options instead of destroying my life by taking refuge in a single possibility, thanks to this practice.