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Has true love existed? We could characterise it as something beyond feelings. In this nuanced combination, closeness and complicity are strongly linked. Reciprocity, effort, and attention are also powerful.

Finally, true love is a deep dedication to a shared cause while respecting each person's development.

What's the secret? From an emotional perspective, success is not “loving yourself a lot”. Nor is it about sacrificing everything for your loved one.

The recipe is to love yourself enough, not others. According to Erich Fromm, it's about knowing that love is a constant offering of self and everyday work.

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Each of us must admit one thing. When destiny brings us to a rare, unique, almost magical person, we ask: Is this the correct one? Have I found love? Helen Fisher and other experts help us determine if we're on track. Take a closer look.

Nothing is true until we authenticate it. This means just fighting for what is worth fighting for in love. Value what ignites us. Thus, some experts, such as Harvard Medical School professor of psychiatry Richard Schwartz, say it's most important to know how to handle relationship issues at every turn.

Love has phases like the moon. Taking these measures will make the connection more genuine each day. Because when we work, focus, and resolve together, the unity strengthens. Daily life becomes more meaningful. Our relationship becomes more definite, powerful, and resistant via everyday devotion.

Let's examine the components of this emotional link.

Love is more than a neurotransmitter-driven feeling and passion. It starts with certain elements:

Surprise, intrigue, destabilisation... Suddenly, we like someone beyond appearance. An emerging link defies all previous patterns.

Anthropologist Helen Fisher's studies are intriguing. Stable couples aren't merely sexually attracted. Their brains engage empathy, compassion, and motivation more than others.

True love is also a permanent psychological and emotional condition. For instance, partners care for each other always. They also aim to promote their well-being, reduce their pain, care about their issues, and develop daily companionship. They wish to help with minor and major things.

Synergy involves pursuing the same goal. One's hopes, dedication, and will should be directed in numerous areas at once. Like a dancing couple, you create new moves to tackle problems together.

Synergistic couples grow in all areas. Indeed, they are greater than their parts. They form an effective, resolute team that supports each other. They also know they won't fall and can move freely. They'll always feel safe and loved.

Conclusion: real love exists. No doubt, yet occasionally we miss it for numerous reasons. The most important thing is to let yourself feel this feeling as often as you need. When this happens, act quickly. To become eternal dancers on the dance floor of joyful romantic relationships, we must give ourselves the means to prolong the experience.


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True love exists. I think love should grow with each other and progress together. How to identify whether this love is true love?