11 YEARS OF MARRIAGE & MY WIFE LOVES SOMEONE ELSE MORE THAN ME! - HAPPY ANNIVERSARY

in life •  6 years ago 

Yeah, it's pretty surprising, isn't it?


It's hard to believe that it has been that long. I asked @mama-pepper to go out with me twelve years ago today, and one year later, we got married. When we first me and began dating, she loved me more than anyone, but now things have changed. You see, she loves Someone Else more than she loves me but don't worry, I live Him more than I love her too, which is why we are still married.

WHAT IN THE WORLD IS THIS GUY TALKING ABOUT

Well, when we first met, we were just a couple clueless people out there in the world, trying to figure it all out. Once we decided to get married, we walked into a church to set things up, because that is commonly what people do. Little did we know that our lives would be forever changed.

You see, we were learning to love one another at that point, but in the process, we found Someone to love even more than each other! We met out Creator and Redeemer on our journey together, and were able to build our relationship on a firm foundation. Before, I was a lot to deal with, and although I've still got some rough edges, I am way more refined that I used to be.

These days, we have chosen to follow the ways of YHWH, our Creator and have received his Son as our messiah and redeemer. We now serve a God of love, reconciliation, and forgiveness. Without Him loving us and providing the way for us to be forgiven and reconciled to Him, we wouldn't understand much about the truth of those matters at all. We will both testify honestly that without Him in our life and marriage, we would have given up on one another a long time ago. It's sad but true.


Guest appearance by @grandpa-pepper in this photo

Life is hard enough, but when you choose to be committed to another human being for the rest of your life, things get even harder. For us, we wouldn't have made it without the guidance and help that He has provided us. Our very lives, my sobriety, our children, and our marriage are all a testimony to His power and what He can do if we choose to let Him.

Back when @mama-pepper met me, all day every day I lived to get drunk, high, and whatever else came my way. I hoped to die in the near future so I wouldn't have to deal with life for much longer and wasted my time away chasing temporary distractions like inebriation and physical pleasure. Each day I would wake up sober, and more often than not, run right back to the bottle, the weed, the cocaine, or whatever else I could get my hands on.

That man would have been a terrible husband and father, which is why I am glad that he is gone now. It's interesting that with His help and encouragement, I chose to give up on who I had made myself in order to give Him the chance to recreate me as he saw fit. I am so blessed with the life that I now have, and I owe it all to Father God and His Son Jesus. A Happy 11th Anniversary indeed! Praise God!

As i shared two years ago in a post on steemit:

Personally, I do not believe that I can take the credit for any of this. Sure, I had a role to play in the situation, but it is Jesus Christ who made the real difference. Without Him, my marriage would already be over and without Him, I would be a terrible papa.

As always, I'm @papa-pepper and here's the proof:


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Until next time…

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Wow..you marriage picture all are so cute. its remember me my sisters marriage day. your writting also so unique.
Happy anniversary Sir @papa-pepper
Always be happy with your lovely family.Thanks for sharing this lovely blog...
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Wow! What a cool GIF! May I keep it and use it?

why not..if you use it i will feel happy..Sir..

Thanks!

Welcome Sir...

Papa that is Cool and It Looks Good in your Portfolio................

@papa-pepper I Love this Post thank you for helping me to Stay Sober Today.

I know you have a Big Heart and Love to Help Steemians in Need. I wanted to ask you if you would UP Vote this Post to Help some People who Love Jesus Christ too and Need to be able just to get Fresh Water to sustain their Lives. Thank you Papa for taking the Time to Help........

https://steemit.com/venezuela/@drutter/mission-agua-possible-using-steemit-to-help-a-desperate-venezuelan-neighborhood-access-clean-water

I'll check it, and come back and upvote your comment for visibility too!

Thank You @papa-pepper we Know How powerful our Father is..............

Awwwwww isn't this beautiful??? So much joy and love in the air. Truth be told, Jesus Christ always make the real difference. No one can run his/her home without Christ.

Happy married life again and Happy Anniversary. May the Lord keep upholding you. Amen.

Thanks so much for that @oredebby!

Congrats!....:)...

Congratulations to both of you, I’ve been with Hayley for over 25 years and I know it takes effort and Compromise and then the kids come along and Priority’s change naturally but that’s not a bad thing, well done. Cheers mike

Beautiful and inspiring, many thanks for sharing. We all must believe in something greater than ourselves, a purpose, belief, spiritual well-being is so important. So glad you shared this about yourself, and changing your past self also. Again, really inspiring, thank you.

Thank you for checking it out and for your kind words @britcoins!

Happy Anniversary to both you and your beautiful wife.

Thanks @bitrocker2020! So far, so good!

that was one of your happiest day exchanging vows and promises both together in front of God and to the people around who witness the ceremony..a young man and woman are now officialy husband and wife.😍😍😍

Happy moments,happy life happy Love !!

Congrats on 11 years and a happy, healthy lifestyle! Your family is beautiful!

Thank you @melodyrussell. How are you guys doing? We never made it up there this summer...

Doing great, thanks. Just busy, busy busy so we understand how it goes! We told ourselves we were going to go explore the Buffalo this summer and never made it there either. Maybe late next spring after we get a good rain, we can show you around the Jacks Fork :) Take care!

Congratulations brother , and always happy to hear a brother giving it up to the creator of all things. Be well my friend and keep inspiring on my man.

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Oh yeah, I can't take credit for this one! I would have messed it up 1000 times over by now and it would have been without repair!

Yea totally, same here bro...

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Give thanks and Bless it!
Happy Anniversary!

Thanks @doctorcrypto. How are those Ghosts treating you?

I need one more idea.
I made some Ghost Berry Jam today.
I've also given a few to @fronttowardenemy who is making an infused oil with them.
I'm going to do a hot sauce. but there are so many peppers, I can make one more thing. Maybe pickle them.

Just one pepper, sliced in half, can really heat up a jar of pickles or something else. They get "hot by association!"

Haha! I like that!
It's like standing next to me. ;P
That heat goes a long way!

Felicidades Dios bendiga tu matrimonio...

Gracias @elkairo14!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY..both of you.

Looking so beautiful & joy family, God blessed

Honestly, Congratulations on loving Jesus, more than you love each other, which makes you able to love each other more than you could otherwise! Happy Anniversary!!! I was very blessed to come to Christ early in my life, but would have been a terrible wife to my dear husband without him, not to mention just horribly lost! God is good, brother!

Amen and Amen! Thanks for the comment! It was a blessing to read!

Amen and Amen!
Thanks for the comment! It was
A blessing to read!

                 - papa-pepper


I'm a bot. I detect haiku.

Thanks for loving the rest of humanity enough to share about what is really important! My Daddy, who was a pastor, went to be with Jesus in 2015. I cannot tell you, the comfort of knowing that I will see him again! I want as many there, as will come, with me when I hug him once again!

LOL - that haiku bot got my last reply to you. I write poems!

😂 funny enough

I have to say that
the haiku bot is very
fun to captivate!

It will have us all thinking in haiku!

Congratulations and well said. While I'm not religious, I have a great deal of respect for people who have found meaning in such guidance. May you enjoy many happy years!

I appreciate the encouragement and support, and that you can respect our beliefs and life. Marriage is like a lot of things, but it does get easier! Thanks @donkeypong!

It's cool to see pictures of you guys from back in the day.

I thought so too!

@papa-pepper this was a fast and tricky one lol. I had began to wonder what you might have done to @mama-pepper for her to have loved someone else more than you just only for me to have discovered that you weren't referring to her loving mortal man 😂. Happy anniversary @papa-pepper it is never easy. Thanks to God for the smooth ride and more years to come.

LOL - Yeah, you noticed I was having a little fun with the title there, huh? Thanks for checking it out!

Amen brotha!

Thanks!

Many Congratulations to both of you. [and the third wheel you have in your life].
You time has just begun, look forward to many, many more years together.

Wow, you make a good point! We've got a long way to go!

Big congratulations to you @papa-pepper. It is amazing how you let change have a positive effect on you..i do hope you continue to be the better @papa-pepper you have become. Do send my warm regards to our incredible @mama-pepper, the love of your life

Happy marriage anniversary @papa-pepper

Thank you so much!

Congratulations!!! May there be many more happy years for the two of you!! 💕

Thanks @heatherthebard! Lord willing, there will be!

Happy 11th Anniversary Pepper Lovers 🌶❤🌶 It's really cool to get to know you guys through technology. It's amazing really!! ❤ Jesus #JCforthewin

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LOL - never seen #JCforthewin before! I agree, it is crazy to build relationships this way and connect to others all over the world!

Happy Anniversary! You both look so very happy in the wedding photos!

It was a very special day for us!

Congratulations, this looks like it was the best thing to ever happen to you. May you grow very old together!

It was the best thing to ever happen to us!

That's wonderful. To God be the glory. Blessings brother and happy anniversary!

All glory to God! Amen.

Absolutely best wishes to you and your gorgeous family on your anniversary young man.
Let me take the the liberty of crediting you and your wife with turning your life around. It takes a special person to be able to do what you did, it was no mean feat. True love is an immeasurable power.
Hats off to you and every respect fella. I'll raise a glass to the next 11 on your behalf :-)

Hopefully the next 11 will be even better than the last! Thanks @nathen007!

Wooooh i celebrate with you @papa-pepper great family extend my greeting to @mama-pepper God bless you

Excellent, I'll let @mama-pepper know that you are celebrating with us!

Thanks @papa-pepper

Keep it going @papa-pepper.... :-)

That's the plan! Thanks my man!

Happy anniversaries... wish you love each other for another many many years

Thank you @mrteb!

Happy 11th Anniversary, @papa-pepper and @mama-pepper! May you have many more blessed years together! All is possible with the Creator. Have faith and follow...

Amen to that! His ways are best!

Happy anniversary @papa-pepper!

Thanks @ma1neevent!

happy married life
May you live long.
I know it's @papa-pepper

I love all the photos equally before and after you guys got together - for me love is love and I love all creation equally - I love you papa-pepper as I love my own children - no distinction - love is love , there is no greater or lesser love - love is all - and living life to the full extent - I see that you have always done that just maybe better guided now, Happy anniversary and happy life to you❤️ Your long dreads looked really cool by the way and your piercings too - you are such a hot pepper 😉 What a lucky mama-pepper you have 🦋🌈🌴🌅🍀❤️

Happy Anniversary!!! :)

Happy Anniversary @papa-pepper you both look great and happy, God bless you. I wish you a very happy life together . Regards.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for sharing your story!

wow you are very happy .
because to find true love is
a challenge, I wish you the best of luck.

Happy Anniversry to you both :)

  ·  6 years ago (edited)

We would have had a lot of fun together back in the day. Ha ha! Now we are responsible.
Congratulations!!

i think you both look a lot better when not wearing that suit , but i can only imagine it has to have been a very fun day that day

its good to see some people can do it

i dont know too many who can (including me so far)

probably people who spread the love without pushing it more than they spread the message on how its done are better fit to inherit the earth

as that book where i once went to school said something about , i never thought it was on spot really :p

i tend to re-mix things and live out-of-time

they gave me several names for that

but i think i'm just me

congratulations @papa-pepper you didnt get that rep by gaming the system did you :)

Congratulations @papa-pepper!
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What an amazing testimony! Blessed be the Name of the Most High! What a special day it must've been for you and your beautiful wife....and also all the pepp-kins! Congratulations @papa-pepper