It happens to everyone to have a hard day, week, month, even a year ... and complain to someone. But there are cases where people literally stumble and squeeze in one place for years because they constantly complain about something. By somebody. Or everything and everything. But what are we actually doing when we complain?

We all know now that our thoughts and the words we say have enormous power. The moment in which we say something aloud, whatever our words - they echo in the universe and it begins to realize, To materialize what we have said.

Our thoughts are the same. Our thoughts move faster than light. So if someone is unemployed and constantly repeats the others "I do not have a job", "I can not find a job" (the most extreme people even say things like "I will never find a job"), then this person Has already chosen not to work.

Logically, we mumble and complain about things that are absent from our lives. No matter whether they are people, experiences and / or belongings. We complain that they are gone. But what is actually happening ... When we do not have something in our lives, we complain that we do not have it, we declare a lack. And, the grievance process (grumbling) takes away what we want. Finally, we find ourselves in a vicious circle in which we pursue something and the sooner we chase it, the more it moves away from us.

The other thing that hurts us and prevents us from having and receiving what we really want is when we condemn the others. Every day, sometimes we talk repeatedly to someone with the words, "You should not do that!", "You must do that!" Or simply condemn it internally with "See him who he is!".

We can only control our desires and thoughts, words and actions,and  we must thing -What we do to achieve them?

     

If we want someone to behave in a certain way - to take care of himself or to love us, we can only pray for him / her so that the best for everyone in the particular situation happens. This, of course, does not mean that this person will do what we want or expect. It only means that everything that happens will happen in the most harmonious way possible.

It is hard! Yes, it is. But we have to take control of ourselves to stop trying to control life. We must stop complaining and condemn the others! Otherwise, we just sabotage ourselves.

     

 My task today is:

Make a post ( post in your blog )about what you do not like in steemit  and show a way to be changed ! 

Link the post here in answers !

Then make 30 days free of complain and work on it ! 

The post i like the most will be rewarded with 20 sbd! 

     

Dont forget to join us in Discord Whaleshares Drama free zone  ! https://discord.gg/RRDzn6c

   

                Stay positive  and many smiles !!! 

                                           

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