How to treat married life correctly

In our real life, some people will choose to divorce after marriage because of their unhappiness. of course, there are many reasons. I think the biggest and cruelest reason is that two people can no longer live together. although the society is now open and people's thoughts are improving, as a woman, a happy and safe life after marriage should be the dream of every woman.

 Only every woman's definition of a happy life after marriage is different. some women think that they can live a happy life with a house, a car and a small deposit. this requirement can be said to be simple and direct. it is also what most women pursue. as long as two people work together after marriage, it can be achieved.

Some women tend to be romantic, believing that married life must be full of romance and not be dragged down by the real daily necessities of firewood, rice, oil and salt. they have to attend a concert today, climb mountains tomorrow, and taste the steak of the newly opened western restaurant the day after tomorrow. in short, there are many new ideas. however, she seems to have overlooked that she is a married person. after complicated baptism of life, it is a necessary process. romantic and fresh attempts need leisure time and accumulate a certain economic foundation.

  There is another kind of woman who wishes to obey her wishes in everything after marriage, to give orders at home, to be coaxed when unhappy, to love when unhappy, and never to consider for others regardless of others' feelings.

  Therefore, different ideas lead to different marriage results. some people get married, the husband and wife are United, and their lives are quite happy. some people often quarrel because of some household chores, and others even have domestic violence. as a result, it is conceivable that there will be polarization. some people live a happy married life, while others will choose to divorce.

 Although both parties to divorce have certain problems, these problems cannot be solved. I think timely communication and mutual understanding and tolerance are quite crucial. many family conflicts are accumulated over a long period of time, but they have not been paid attention to at first. when they have accumulated to a certain extent, they start to break out and become unmanageable. therefore, regular communication and mutual understanding are very important. at least they all know that they have not done well enough. then both parties go to correct them. only in this way can they effectively prevent the situation from expanding and the life between husband and wife can be long - term.