Is a Camgirl a Normal girl or a whore? (personal experience by the real camgirl)

in life •  8 years ago  (edited)

 If I ask people in my country what do they think about the camgirls, I will get such answers: 

                                        

 - Camgirl is an easy girl 

- Oh, she masturbates on cam and gets dirty money for that 

- Does your parents and friends know about that?????

 - Omg, you earn money for being naked and playing with yourself. You are a very bad person 

It’s just a little part of it. People always love to judge others without exploring the topic.  


What is like to be a camgirl?

                                           

 I am cammodel and to be honest I AM PROUD OF IT and LOVE IT a lot! Why is it so? Many of you can think because its easy money and you get them for pleasure. But you are wrong!  YOU won’t believe, BUT being a camgirl is an art! The money which we earn is not for pleasuring ourselves but for bringing unforgettable emotions to our members there.  

Huge variety of people got used to thinking that camgirls are always ready to play with themselves, they have many toys of different sizes which the model will use anytime the member wants. People think that it’s enough to flash boobs or pussy and the girl will earn a lot of money. They are also sure that camgirl is ready to escort with any member who asks and she will certainly spend a night or more with him!  

                                 

BUT PEOPLE!!! You are wrong! Camgirl is a model, firstly. She was created for admiring and entertaining. Before she logs in, she needs to think about the show, what she will do today, do a make-up, choose the clothes, set the cam and the light etc. Moreover, not every girl can become a camgirl, because not everyone can pay attention to 500 or 1000 people at the same time! It’s really difficult to do.   Not every girl knows what to tell to members, what to write to them. 

The cammodel should understand phycology, she needs to have good intuition, she must be educated in many topics, because there are thousands of people of different interests. And if you want to be a successful one, you need to be able to hold many conversations.

 Camgirls were created not just for showing off every hole and curve they have. It’s firstly about beauty and brain. Stupid models will not succeed here just showing their naked body. It’s not breathtaking. On the contrary, the girl which doesn’t show any place and is funny and hot will be more popular than just naked body. 

Besides camming cammodels have a lot of work connected with it. For example, we prepare a lot of content which is available for our members for 24 hours. We need to create new games and new shows in order to be different and interesting.  

                                 

According to my personal experience, I can say that camming is a really interesting thing! It’s not for ever, of course, all of us understand it. But now I have a possibility to meet so many awesome and different people here and develop together with them. Camming is not predictable, it’s always a challenge for myself firstly. I am a camgirl on myfreecams.com and I am really glad to be the part of this community.    

SO what do u think now about camgirls? Are they whores or girls who deserve admiring?   

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Wow!
This is not the first I have heard of cam girls or the MANY other forms of being paid by men for attention, but it is the first article I have read from one!
I very much appreciated your article as you are so honest. Honesty is one of the most important qualities a person can have and despite any judgment people may have on you you are obviously WAY more honest than most people. Just because of this you deserve respect. It also appears that you for now atleast are happy with what you do. This is also saying a lot more about you than most people. Most people are NOT happy with what they do and dislike it every day. You have a lot more free time and also a more luxurious life than many who hate what they do.
I am going to follow you because you seem like a very interesting person and since you are honest I am sure there will be some worthwhile posts.
If you want check me out I just posted this. It is surely worth a read~
Best Regards~*~
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there are different kind of camgirls, generalizing makes no sense: some are entertainers, some offer virtual sex, some just virtual friendship, some are interesting characters, some just glam dolls, some ethical, some scammers, etc.
Obviously being smart will always help boost profits, but a beautiful fit girl will do ok regardless. I even seen camgirls completely ignoring chat and just writing "pvt" on Jasmin and still doing well. I guess MFC is more tailored towards entertainers as it is mostly free chat based.
personally when I visit camsites first thing I look for is looks, the rest is a bonus.
I appreciate camgirls, though not to the point of spending money on them. but if there was a system like Steemit where you could upvote girls and retribute them that way I'd upvote a lot. Who knows, soon some developer could implement such a camsite based on Steem.
btw even among "whores " there are smart , well educated and fun charachters ("elite escorts" so to speak). as long as it is a free choice no issue with it.

So i guess age doesnt matter eigther!? This is the first im hearing of such sites, and i would think its boarder line child porn. ? And ok in some countries. 🤔

all girls on those cam-sites are 18 or older. they have to provide ID to signup. they are regulated sites, all legal.

Ok thanks for the reply! Ive never heard of these sites called camgirls, is all, and i didnt follow this when she introduced herself its more of a guy thing. If nothing else im glad to be more informed now! Thanks!

Speaking as someone that did IT for Adult Entertainment for over a decade and has lots of contacts still in it. You are wrong its not just a guy thing. In fact 48% of many cam sites customers are WOMEN. Oh yeah and 86% of all Adult Entertainment companies are WOMEN owned. So when feminist claim Porn is male dominated and nothing but exploitation of women they are full of a word that begins with S.

i cant believe im getting this comment back to a post from 9 months ago !! wow !! i really dont care one way or another what people do with their lives , i have always believed that people should do what makes them happy in life weather they are male or female !! steem on !

Your previous comments say the complete opposite. In fact your so vested in this topic that you posted 11 comments .

An your getting a comment on it from when I read this topic.

Now if you do not want to have to face having to deal with responses to your statements ideals or beliefs after you have made them, no matter how much time has passed, I would say you should not post comments then. That though is all up to you.

I have posted things on other sites that are still there from over a decade ago and still get an occasional comment on them. So of the comments are positive some are negative but I never complain about how after 10+ years there is a new comment. Then again I tend to say what I mean and mean exactly what I say.

You talk about letting people do with their lives what they want now, when in your previous post you do the following.

  1. Attempt to slut shame.

  2. Claiming she is spamming when she wrote an in depth from her experience article. Which is not SPAM.

  3. An then you flag her based on your prejudice uneducated beliefs.

That is not showing tolerance or a live and let live philosophy it shows the exact opposite.

Perhaps my post will make you sit back and think about your previous posts and the light it shines upon you, but somehow from your reply to my reply I doubt it. An you as well
Steem on.

im trying to be friendly and do like getting into stupid and very childish cat fights from a comment on a post from 9 months ago !! OMG ! im now blocking you please move on and find someone else to cat fight with

As can be seen Karen has issues very serious issues.

I totally agree with you! There are different girls and they are beautiful and smart their ways, no matter what they do. The most important is that they feel comfortable with it or not. I appreciate every one for his choice. With this article I just wanted to change the view a little )

Notice how shes advertising herself! On myfreecams.com ! This is just another way to get people to her site and make money! SPAM! WHERES THE CHEETAH BOT!shes trying to say she understands psychology! Shes a teenager, barely! Shes too young to understand even what she is doing! Give me a break.

Girls should be admired for their brains , heart and soul! And instead of pleaseing men with their bodies and how silly they can be, they should be learning how they can mentor and be good roll models for other girls, and become ambasadors for all women to strive for! ...😉I am a mother of 2 grown boys! And im proud of who I am?! Are you!? If you are then thats great!

Thank you for you comment! I am really glad for you and that you are lucky to have two sons! Its precious. As for me, I can say that I am the happy woman who already has those things which people at 60 can't get. If I was not proud of myself I would not share my experience as a camgirl, which is really also precious. Sometimes the coin has two sides ....

Better find a job that gives you dignity and better respect from humanity even though that may pay less than the one you are now currently enjoying. Money isn't everything in this world.

Upvote to you! 😉👍i bet her parents have no idea what shes doing! Secretly in her bedroom when their away. Or behind a locked door! Please pay closer attention to your daughters online activities! 👍

You took the right words out of my mind, my friend.

I feel sad for these girls who dont get enough attention at home by their peers or friends that they seek it elsewhere, and in the worse possible ways! 😢😩

You know I am 22 years old and soon going to be 23. At this age I already have my own apartment, my car, I can buy as much clothes as I need, I travel somewhere almost every month, and all these things I earned myself without asking even a penny from my parents. And everything I got is not only due to camming, which is really one of my favourite hobbies. I am a clever girl and I have many projects I develop.

I get the impression that you are a clever girl. And it's quite an achievement for you to have arrived at the independence that you have at your age. It's a worthy accomplishment.

I don't really understand why you've received the criticism you have, perhaps it was just the wrong time to post? This site can be very fickle, with a totally different audience and different responses depending on when you post and who is around at the time.

If you just had sexy pics I would not have upvoted you myself; but the fact that you do have something interesting to say and you can express your ideas enhanced your appeal to me. So, keep doing what you do and don't bother defending yourself to those who aren't willing to understand or support you.

Personally, I have a deep interest in the male/female dynamic as well as female desire and allure - these are topics that I research and write about. So, I quite enjoy your posts...keep them coming :)

Thank you, my friend!

How much dignity does an entry-level employee have? Someone working fast food or Walmart? They wake up every day, to go do something they hate, in order to barely get by. They are just a cog in a machine, not someone who has to think for themselves. They're not in a decision-making role. They only advance or get a raise when it's handed to them.

Any form of sex work is very different. You are your own boss. Whether it's 1099-MISC or you're rocking an LLC / S-Corp. Hell, plenty of burger flippers who don't even understand the difference between that. You're also in charge of promotion and all other tasks that come with running a business. I know some camgirls with some power-packed resumes. Some including things like php development.

Why? Because that's part of running a business. You can't say "That's not my job title" or "I don't care if this business gets ran into the ground, not my problem".

I call that a lot more dignified than flipping burgers. But that's just my opinion.

A famous comedian once said to a heckler, "I'd like to see you stand up here and do what I do, it's not that easy!" Same could be said for a Cam Girl. I always respect people that do something I can't.

They can be any of those it all depends on the person and if they like what they are doing or treat it as a job they hate. U help out new people with bitcoin on a cam site and unfortunately most of the ones I've talked to are in the latter category but there is one awesome one that keeps me from shutting down my support channel and leaving.

What kind of support channel do you operate?

I just stream some bitcoin charts or a slideshow and have all the info needed for someone new to bitcoin to setup a wallet, buy, and read abut it more. I leave it up 24/7 and if I'm at the computer I will answer questions or others that may be in the channel can. Of course there is also info on how to setup for using the site since the site doesn't have an official support channel online often.

@petitefille you certainly express yourself well and have a deep understanding of all the dynamics involved - throw in some allure and feminine mystique and I'd agree with the latter: a girl worth admiring ;)

Oh please! Give me a break! Shes a child! Shame on you!

And your response is to 'shame' her? Why? She obviously enjoys what she is doing and is capable of expressing herself in written form. Your criticism is not going to change her mind.

We live in a hypersexualized reality where the female-form is used as a tool to enslave men and promote pretty much everything. And it's fairly obvious that women enjoy the attention and the experience of power that it gives them - after all, the females that walk around with their tits hanging out with no panties and tiny tiny shorts don't do so to avoid a thrush infection! They do so because they LOVE male desire; as one quote encapsulates: "Man desires woman; woman desires the desire of a man".

At least she can write, and express herself clearly; her pictures here are neither gratuitous nor sleazy, and in comparison with other posts I have seen that receive massive rewards for very little substantial content she does at least have something to say.

Are you serious! This is a child! Seeking attention because she doesnt get any from her family or friends. And theeirs no story here ive seen much better get alot less upvotes! You certainly would not feel this way if it was your daughter or sister or your friends daughter! Some men are so gullable. This is a total advertisement to atract people to her site period.

Oh, and she happens to be 22!!! A child? Give me a break!

I understand where you are coming from.

She does not look 22 at all! And whats with that other photo of a girl, that is what she calls herslf GIRL! with teddy bears on the rug beside her! Do you know this for a fact that she is 22 and not 16 ish! ? Is this what steemit is coming to!? OMG!i hope you have a daughter some day! Even if she was 22 you would not be happy to see your daughter doing this!

Is it somewhere forbidden to have a teddy bear when u are 22?)))

If you were more attentive, you would watch my previous article and would see that I am already 22. I have good genes and yes, I am totally happy that you give me 16))) Its really a precisious compliment for me, because in 40 I will look like I am 20))) And every camsite demands age approvement. Better to read to rules berofe writing not checked information. Thank you for the comment.

Sorry you may very well have good genes! I do myself! But in your case you purposely make yourself look much younger then, and pose giggling with teddy bears , to atract men to your site with a fetish for young girls, ! None of this interests me at all. Sorry i will be muteing you from now on! ☺

Thank you for the kind comment!)))

This is advertiseing ,herself and her camgirl site! Total spam . Flagged.

Horrible to call any woman a whore!!!!!!!!!! Shame on you!!! Even using this to make a point. Perfect example of a double male standard & Diskifer is a male!!!!

One of the reasons, I find is the belief that there is a Man with white beard up above who decides everything.. that is NOT true!! My first book "Something Divine" (which I am going to share here) is about understanding that there is something within us that is Divine - and it is unlimited in intelligence + compassion. So I can say.. people who matter don't mind and people who mind don't matter! :-)