Life Definitely Has It's Moments

in life •  7 years ago 

I wanted to take a few moments to let everyone know why I am not posting or on steemit much this past week.

On Monday the 19th I had to take my wife to the emergency room due to major health issues. Partly it involved early stage renal failure. In part this was due to a reaction to medications. On top of that she was have a major allergic reaction to medication she has been on. Due to some very good doctors she improved enough that they moved her to a rehabilitation center to work on rebuilding her physical strength. I can say she is improving gradually, but could be in the rehabilitation center for a few weeks.

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This photo is only a couple of years old.

I have had to cover her work load during this time. We care for disabled adults in our home. So I have been busy, besides trying to get in to see her.

Then just as she was settling into the rehabilitation center one of the disabled ladies we care for, who had been ill for a couple weeks got worse and I ended up taking her to the emergency room. It turns out she has some serious issues. The biggest is only about 35% of her heart is functioning and because of this there is not much that can be done for her...The best we can do is keep her as comfortable as possible. In a day or so we will have her home, which will be more work, but seeing she has been with us for 18 years we want her in familiar surroundings when she passes.

This all means I have been stretched beyond my limits, which means I have had very little time to be on steemit. Wanted my followers to know I had not just disappeared.

Once things settle down here I will be more active again.

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sir we are wait for your new blog

I am hoping I can do a post this weekend. I was working on one with photos of our cruise to Mexico a couple of years ago. Things are settling down a little so I am hopeful...

ok sir thanks

God bless of your wife.

thank you so much sir for your resteemed

lovely cuple

My wife is getting stronger. We are trying to keep her in rehabilitation center another 5 days to get stronger. Right now if she came home I would also be her care provider and I am on overload.

The disabled lady we care for came home yesterday. She is in pretty bad shape. She is at the end of her life, although cannot predict how long she has. Today she is doing better, but with her heart in such bad condition she is weak. we do have extra help with her through this process.

Just taking it one-day-at- a- time...She functions at a 3 year old level so she really does not grasp what is going on.

A few have asked how I am doing and all I can say I am tired but hanging in there. My daughter has been a great help with both situations.

now how is her condition? everything ok now?

God bless her. we are praying.

good luck deborah stronger and faster healed.
hopefully the woman cacqt the double care also speedy recovery.
keep the spirit @r2cornell
I loveyou mom

halo r2cornell
I just joined in steemit
I can not create posts yet
my steemit account was created by my friend

now he's gone out of town.
I do not know what to post

I pray a quick heal to your wife
and the old lady you care for as well.

You have to be your masters

they will recover
because many people are praying
I believe

hopefully your wife is always healthy and become better @r2cornell

She is improving and will be coming home tomorrow but will be getting therapy at home. I am just very tired now.

when he comes home he will give you happiness throughout your life, the day you pass is full of happiness with them

Keep spirit @r2cornell
Keep spirit ms debora

We all support

we always pray for healing mistress.
the deborah mistress we already regarded as our mother.
quick heal mama deborah

if you have time, please read my latest post.
and please give an opinion.
thank you very much @r2cornell

I've read last night

I can learn from your post.

hopefully you will make a post to me.
I have not made any posts yet.
I do not know

certainly a friend, keep reading other people's posts and keep trying.
you will
good luck .

you are not alone sir
I will always pray for the healing of your master's wife.
hopefully your wife quickly recovered and the disabled women you care for also recover quickly.

keep the spirit of deborah mistress
keep the old woman's spirit disabled
still semarang r2cornell.

so many people pray for you.

I also pray for a speedy recovery

sir,check this post:i wish all the friend to pray for the wellness of your wife

https://steemit.com/wafrica/@anikearn/i-wish-all-the-friends-to-pray-for-the-wellness-of-r2cornell-s-wife

Do to time constraints I will write a response that is for each of you. I greatly appreciate the kind words, thoughts and prayers from everyone.

My wife(Deborah) is getting stronger. She is getting a lot of therapy. I am just trying to keep her in the rehabilitation center so she can get strong enough to do everything for herself.

The disabled lady (Annie) that is in hospital will come home tomorrow. The goal is to keep her as comfortable as possible and around people she knows for her last days.

Again thank you to everyone for your support. It means a lot to me.

stay afloat and fight the mother @deborah.
we all pray for your healing.
We all love you.

quick heal ya lady @deborah.
we all pray for healing mistress.

don't warry sir. she will be strongly back again. i will praying for her. you keep up your caring.

we are praying for her. she will be fine as soon. you are a good husband its too good. thank you.

hopefully no obstacles and all goes well

stay afloat and fight the mother @deborah.
we all pray for your healing.
We all love you.

stay afloat and fight the mother @deborah.
we all pray for your healing.
We all love you.

Datanglahbme blog saya tuan .
Terimakasih banyak @r2cornell

Keep spirit mom @deborah
quick heal ya mom @deborah.
we all pray for healing mistress.

Thanks for you

love its indepandent more.and love is not pain.its not finised any time

ha ha ,,,its good moment with lover

love comes from heaven we know...but when a couple a pass their special time with each other that moment they can realize something special in their heart..........
it's amazing

How is your wife now? I pray for your wife and everyone, they should get well soon, thanks for posting a lot of days, your photography is really awesome, both of them are very good moments,

Thank you. My wife is getting better. I will be bringing her home tomorrow. She will still need more therapy.

I have been working 16 - 18 hour days caring for the people in our home. The one that I had in hospital was given maybe 6 months to live. Lot of extra work... I will survive this.

This is vary nice couple. i love you sirDQmZo4UhG9jNXd42JdvTYdctu6EGvA3kkkvWm5CY2KhWKMb.jpg

Love its note finisedall thia any moment

We all are with you sir for every happening in your life.

And your wife will recover soon and you both will have a pleasant cup of tea in your courtyard for sure.

Thank you...steem on and stay blissful...

I can see that wishes are pouring in for the early recovery of your wife but do you know @r2cornell why ?? Because you are a nice person and very decent human being who heps to the disable people and everyone around you love you the most.

I wish your wife would recover soon.

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Take care of her i hope and pray she is well
Have a nice day

Insha-Allah your wife is very stronger about 5 days,,,I will always pray for the healing of your master's wife.all the best

wow......lovely moment

the picture means that real love still alive...
best of luck for you..

oh no! now how was she? she is ok now? i hope she will be fine now. great couple. still love overloaded each to other. that's great.

this is the best couple.......you are a lucky man sir

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Hello, I hope that the health of your wife Deborah and Mrs. Annie will improve, I will pray for you and for you, for being a man who is in charge of them, regards

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Now what is your wife?i hope She's a lot better now...

Your post has been very nice. I hope you will get many upvote and comments. I am upvote and comment on you. I hope you will back Something.

ha ha.,,,,pure love

hows your love now?

My wife has been able to come home. She is still getting therapy at home and is getting stronger. One of the disabled ladies we care for is in her latter days of life. It is a lot of work, but as my wife is getting stronger she is helping a little more each day. I had been putting in 18 hour days, but yesterday I was able to relax a little more and get to bed earlier.

@r2cornell really appreciate your efforts and care for your better half, I can understand the situation as my mother is suffering from many diseases, My good wishes for your wife !

best couple ever sir. I hope she is out of dangour now. I'm a doctor. If you need any suggestion for your wife health then knock me. i will trying to good advise for your wife. And I'm new comers here. I will join here few days ago because of I'm working with camping so visit different places every time. I need your suppor also. I went suppport here some people but they don't support me. If you want to support ne then visit my blog, I wrote about my self.

Thank you. My wife is now home, but getting lots of therapy. She is getting stronger day by day. I am still working very long days. I did peek at your blog, and will try and get back to it soon.

don't worry @r2cornell, therapy good for your wife health. definitly she is getting more stronger as soon.

@r2cornell i think you are the old member in steemit. i want to know something from you. how can i promote my account? how cab i build up my followers?

I pray to almighty and wish for speedy recovery of your wife @r2cornell sir.

You are a noble person and philanthropist as far as I know and all best wishes will alway pour in for you at every moment of your life and for your nearest and dearest ones as well.

Thank you and Have a great day.

sir @r2cornell may God bless your wife, ameen

nice cuple

All the wishes that my heart can utter for speedy recovery of your wife, may almighty bless you and your wife a healthy life.

You are great @r2cornell sir and God is always with you.

Thank you.

awesome couple sir,,,

wow really very nice couple ..and best wish for you

I hope your wife is always healthy and become better now @r2cornell

Well posted a picture of a very good moment. You always do good work. Do not worry. Everything will be okay @r2cornell

Understand your feelings dear sir
Take care your life
Thanks

@r2cornell I think this is lovely and unforgetable moment....in your life...amazing...
Living alone definitely has its moments. In fact, it can be downright awesome...
Life is hard, but there are moments, sometimes hours - and, if you're really lucky, full days - where everything feels just right...
Thanks...

Hey @r2cornell haven't seen you this week. I thought you would be busy but it came up like your wife got an issue. Its good news that she is recovering back fastly. May she get healthy again very soon. You are doing it right. That picture is so loving 😍

Yes very lovely picture.We wish your wife recovery very soon

One day after school, my crush walked me to the bus. However, right before I got onto the bus she stopped me, looked at me in the eye, and then kissed me. I was smiling the ENTIRE way home.

Feeling sad to know that you are facing hard time due to health issue of your wife. Glad to know that she is recovering. I pray for her speedy recovery.
You are doing great job for humanity by caring disabled adults. May the old lady also have a happy life.

quickly healed mistress.
keep the spirit @r2cornell.
we all miss you.

@r2cornell, Your memorable photo shot lovely. Wife and husband loving yet. Awesome. But sad to hear bad condition of your wife's. Prefer to hear re-build her life again. She'll being good health very soon. I told this my religious leader and immediately resolve these problem.

I strongly agree with you because things done bbut mements never gone thanks for you kind words keep it up i hope you have a good life keep sharing with us

Life so hard to keep going. Probably coming very harder troubles. But need to positive mind. Sure, your lovely wife keep in good healthy very soon. I pray for her.

Understand your post dear sir ,
Now how is your wife health .
Take care

It's good that she is recovering and moving back tot he rehabilitation center. Hope your wife becomes healthy again as she was before. Good wishes for her. Nice loving picture though! :)

You're a bet husband in this platform and lovely guy to your wife. You preserve every time since after marriage. Well @r2cornell. No doubt your wife get well soon.

Hey @r2cornell, Don't need to worry about that. Your wife recovery soon.

seperti istri Anda mendapat masalah. Kabar baiknya adalah dia pulih kembali dengan cepat. Semoga dia sehat kembali segera

we sincerely hope that his wife will be healthy again,
a very good image a @ r2cornell

Wow,,nice couple but this is very sad time your....don't worry sir, hope your wife becomes healthy again as she was before. Good wishes for her. Nice loving picture though....]]]

life is the meaning with each other...
best of luck for your mrs...
get well soon..god bless her...

thank you for sharing....

I have nothing to say but i hope your wife good very soon,,don't worry sir and take care of your wife

you both of guys are very nice. best couple ever. still you guys are best couple & very young. i pray for her. she will be fine early.

I felt really sorry to hear about your wife, i pray to God for his fastest recovery and it is okay you take your time the beautiful soul @r2cornell

Stay Blessed :)

This is very sad news for us. i wish she will be fine back again. best wishes for her. don't warry sir. we are always with her.

I'll pray for your wife to get it done soon.you are very good husband.
Dnt worry your wife will recover very soon.

Very nice partnership,sir................

wow......lovely moment
the beautiful couple DQmRL1k4h5gN6HJzz9DZb8EKL7pp3E4on1V3psDmUK1ykqE_1680x8400.jpg coupel

Hi how are you,awesome blog posts you always comes up with these amazing posts.

i wish your wife will be ok very soon,,so don't worry and take care him

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really very nice couple ..I respect your love

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the picture means that real love still alive...
best of luck for you..

You are having amazing time at the moment,enjoy your life for full extent,great to see you again sir,you are such an inspiration for us.

@r2cornell sir you are always active with us. first of all you don't warry sir. I know she is very stronger & she have you sir. you always care of her so much. its too important, You loves her so much. I hope she will be fine as soon.

God bless her
We are always with you.

There are some moments that are memorable. You and a great photo of your wife @r2cornell

I still remember the first time I kissed a girl (5+ yrs ago). It was the most thrilling experience ever. It was magical, and I've never had that feeling again kissing a girl. It holds a special place in my heart and so does she.

@r2cornell my dear friend, i pray Your wife so that your wife recovery soon.Take care off your wife.I know that sir,the biggest is only about 35% of her heart is functioning.

i hope she is well take care bro we can wait for your post's health is more important :)

yah i think same to you

Wow! Beautiful cupleDQmRL1k4h5gN6HJzz9DZb8EKL7pp3E4on1V3psDmUK1ykqE_1680x8400.jpeg

Well buddy really sorry to fear that hope when gets back to you soon and in a good health !
Hope the lady with the heart condition gets to be good as well !

You guys are a great couple with passing that much of your life together that is indeed the beauty of life :)

I do really hope that I get some one that i can call the soul mate some day ;)

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I hope your wife gets better, kidney failure is dangerous .. very few people live a long life after losing their kidneys my dad died recently due to kidney failure .. he did not know that they took care of handicapped adduct this is a great contribution to a great cause .. humanitarian aid.

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh so beautiful

keep fighting mistress
the mistress must be strong.
you are really good @r2cornell

you must divide the time to the disabled
that you care for.
this is a very noble deed.

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Pray to God for your wife and prospect she will get a wealthy, happy and a long life. thanks sir @r2conell for sharing your moments with us.

quickly healed mistress.
keep the spirit @r2cornell.
we all miss you.

I wish you and your wife will always be good. You are a very good man
@r2cornell

You are a wonderful man, being in charge of your wife's health, a big hug for both of you

God bless you both & hope to hear a good news soon~

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Romantic.............
So nice post sir...............

wow.......lovely moments
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only for your gift

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lovely moment

i thinks this is symbol of a lot of of love

You and your wife are very beautiful. I think you have a lot of love


nice couple & hope your wife will get well soon. @r2cornell

@resteemia
reteemed & upvoted

Today i told my girlfriend . i am sad will not talk to you because you not completing the promise of kiss .
But today she says i will kiss little bit Enjoyment with you .

You are a very good husband. Here is an illustration. You are a hero and always keep the family behind.Actually the moments of love between husband and wife are unimaginable @r2cornell

Pain is a test of Allah, it's a sign of God is still dear to us,
You are a good husband and also our duty in the household, keep the spirit even though lately you are very busy ..

you are right @adson

Very sad Sir @r2cornell. I hope your wife get well soon. And amazing photography sir.

Yes been wondering why I dont see you here lately but now I know. Thank you for letting us know. I hope and pray to the both of you, that's only what I can do now. Be strong and just look above when you need help.

this is a good feeling pictures of husband and wife.its memorable photoshoot of lovely couple.you are a best husband and good guy in this platform. Probably coming very harder troubles. But need to positive mind.your lovely wife keep good healthy condition come back very soon.best of luck of ur wife and you.thanks to sharing for your great feeling moment with your wife on your blog..@r2cornell

how is he health @r2cornell, is there an increase? hopefully quickly heal his wife and can gather together, my prayers accompany

Hope your wife will be get well soon & you'll get more time to be active on Steemit

Wow sir ..F72B5137-67CF-469F-BCD9-6FF446E7FA53.gif8EB2FCFF-79DC-489F-8590-A20088521892.gif

Wow.
What a photography it is.
seeing this feeling love in my mind.

Happy Steeming.

This is very sad News for us. I feel very bad when i read your article. That's good she is now well day by day. i hope she will be fine as soon & back strongly by this sickness.
Best wishes for her. she is with you so i think this is the main treatment. You are a good man & a very good Husband.

Please no tension sir. i was thought your next post will be your travels related post with so much photography but suddently this news, i always feel too bad for our grandmother. she is my grandmother. i always pray for her from my heart. if it possible i will going to your home & take care for her. wish! please always take care of ber sir. i know you take care very much, you are best. please don't be upset sir. you always with us at our heart.

This picture tells you that a beautiful life is in you. There are many bad times in life. They have to deal with bravery in the world. I wish that your wife and family be good to God @r2cornell

That's very good she is now at home. day by day improve her health condition. don't be upset sir. we know you are the great person, you back strongly at this family with us. like your lovely picture. first time i see that two most Younger couple love to each other. very lovely sir. I want to see again when she will back well & yours family tour then that's lovely picture once again we see.

The work you're doing is much more important.
You guys are really awesome doing what you do.
And best of luck to your wife, I hope she recovers soon..