Being comfortable is an absolute necessity if you want to have a successful sex life. When you are uncomfortable it shows in your body language, and that in turn creates some very undesirable results. That's why it is important to learn how to be comfortable during intercourse.
So what does it mean to be comfortable? It means that you are allowing your body to become relaxed, you are allowing your mind to become peaceful and your spirit to relax as well. The next thing to do is to get into the right mindset. You have to convince yourself that you are going to have a great sexual experience. Once you allow this to happen, then and only then will you feel comfortable.
The best way to get yourself into this positive mindset is to focus on other parts of your body as you move forward with the sexual contact. As you touch your partner or your own body you should be paying attention to how you are feeling about them. Paying attention to your body language can make all the difference in the world. If you are not comfortable, your body language may tell you as much. So pay close attention to how you are acting, because that will tell you if you are comfortable enough for sex.
What you should try to do is concentrate on feeling your sensations. If you find that you are a little bit uncomfortable, you can begin to move more slowly. You want to create the anticipation for your partner so that when you finally get started you will be ready and relaxed. Remember that having multiple orgasms takes a lot more energy than having one. So if you aren't very comfortable at first, you can ease into it and soon you will be able to have multiple orgasms.
There are many different sexual positions that you can try. Try laying down and spreading your legs apart so that you are looking at your partner. If you like, you can stimulate yourself by touching and stimulating various parts of your body. By doing this, you are not only using that as a way to distract yourself, but you are also telling your partner that you are enjoying yourself and that you like what you are doing.
In order to be fully comfortable with sex, you should never take it for granted. Just because you are comfortable during sex doesn't mean that you are comfortable in all aspects of your life. Make sure that you are always working at being more comfortable and you will feel much better about yourself in general.