Instant Charm Boosters

Today I'd like to share my precious findings on how to attract people, which I named as "Instant Charm Boosters."

[1] The first booster is taking high-power poses for 2 minutes.

Expanding, opening up poses like the picture. That's it. It will boost your self-confidence and comfort, which will boost your attractiveness too.

How does it work? This is not a matter of belief. But there's a science behind this. Social psychologist Amy Cuddy showed that only 2 min long high power poses do change your hormones level meaningfully. They increased testosterone, one of the male hormones, and the hormone related to the feeling of power and decreased cortisol - the hormone correlated to the stress. The changes were so powerful that it made a difference even in a very stressful job interview. Blindly tested interviewers highly evaluated the group of interviewees who did this 2 min long high power poses before the interview. So how about changing your body postures right now to more expanding, stretching, opening up poses like rappers with full of swags? :)

[2] The second booster is mirroring the other person's body postures or actions.

It will make the other person feel 'we are on the same page. we are clicking. I don't know why but I like you.'

Again, there's a "science" behind this. It's so famous in psychology, this phenomenon has its official name, "the Chameleon Effect." As a chameleon changes its body color to match its surrounding environment, people unconsciously mimic their interacting partners, which made interactions smoother and increased linking between interacting partners. So "we're all copycats" unconsciously and sometimes, we can use this consciously to boost our attractiveness. Blindly tested single men and women liked the intentionally mirroring partners in the blind dates 15% more than normal partners.

Are you going to have an important public speech, job interview, meeting with VIP clients or heart fluttering blind date? How about trying the instant charm boosters? These are not sophisticated mental training nor chemical pills with side effects, just but simply physical with your body! Therefore, don't forget!

Our body can shape our mind!