No Matter How Hard Life Gets, Never Give Up!

When someone or something enters your life and it feels too go to be true, it usually is. My advice is to ride the wave of feel good-ness out for as long as it last. But be prepared because it could end just as abruptly as it started.

Dont be bitter, accept status quo, evaluate what you've leaned and keep it moving. Life is about packing as many experiences into it as you can. Some of the experiences are just what we needed to move us to our next level of growth and maturity. Accentuate the good and release the bad. Your horizon is still in front of you.

Recently I decided to make an epic change in my life and move from California to Arizona. My decision was twofold, first I'd be close to family and friends, secondly to reduce my cost of living so I can save, invest and enjoy life. I arrive in Chandler on September 21 at 7pm. I slept on the sofa and the next morning teamed with my brother and his wife to set up and organize my bedroom.

It's coming together nicely!

With the furniture and clothes organized and in order, now it's time to tackle the two or three boxes containing mail, file, what-nots, pictures and hadwritten notes. In other words the tedious process of taking action on each piece.

Although I dreaded this phase it turned out to be quite rewarding. I tossed everything that didn't positively contribute to my happy, loving and healthy lifestyle. That in itself offered me tremendous joy. No matter how hard life gets, never give up!

A lot of the things in those boxes, I've bought with me through three marriages. Ludicrous, right? Can you imagine the burden of caring around negative energies from your past relationships for 40 years?

This process allowed me to discard things and release energies that no longer served me and I kept what made me happy. Hapiness is our Birthright!

Life is a school, a school of life experiences designed to teach us lessons. Once a lesson is mastered you will never have to repeat it.

If you fail to learn the lesson it will show up again, in a different situation, appearance or body type but non the less it's the same lesson. When you notice a recurring negative situation in your life, sit quietly and focus inward, ask God, "What is this experience designed to teach me?" No matter how hard the lesson may be, when it's revealed just do it! This way you advance to the next lesson, oh yes, there will be others. Life is about progression!

My mother taght me, "nothing fails but a try." So through out my life I have tried and failed at a lot of things. One of my ex-husbands tied to use those failures as a club to kill my motivation and cause me to doubt my capabilities.

However from each failure I learned value life skills and lessons which helped me mature into the powerful woman I am today!

All this to say, if you keep items, energy or feelings from your past relationships in your heart, you're blocking all the good the Universe holds for you. Let it go, get your foot out of the door, because your future will no come full circle until you close the door(s) of your past! Letting go feels so good and so free!

So now, I face my future one day at a time as a happy, whole and complete Being! I know if nobody loves me, not to worry because I am abundantly loved by God! The greasest love of all, I need no other!

Ahh ...the move is complete, what do you think?