对待一件新生的事物,尤其是那种可能会颠覆传统行业的,我发现一般有两种人比较容易持否定态度,一种是不懂的人,不懂的人就不讲了,因为这些人说话是靠不住的,纯属扯淡瞎逼逼。
但另外一种人也容易持有否定态度,而且这类人多以行业的专业人士居多,如果说不懂的人反对它,我们可以一笑了之,但对于那些行业的专业人士,却仍旧持有否定态度,这就有些让人觉得匪夷所思了。
仔细想下来,这其中的原因也不奇怪。一个人在其所在或行业领域里待太久了,对其相关的技术等非常的熟练和了解,其自信也不言而喻,但也极其容易养成一种惯性的思维。当出现一新生事物时,可能跟传统的一些有较大的不同,而这些不同却往往同先前事物显得有些另类,对于长期已经适应了旧有思维的一部分人来说,这显然跟先前他们所熟悉的那些格格不入,自然会莫名出现内心的排斥,内心一作怪,很多东西就不能正确客观地去看待了,判断也自然会有些失颇。
所以我认为,一个人做事要自信,但同时不能过于自信,不自信往往会令你做事畏手畏脚、胡思乱想,而太过于自信显然也不行,容易自负,而自负的后果往往就是太过于相信自己的一些判断,无法再听进去不同的意见或新观点,久而久之,必然失去很多机会。
时刻保持一颗谦虚和上进的心态,对新生事物,看不懂的时候避免高调过多的评论,而是低调抓紧去学习,一旦看好的时候就要迎头而上,过去的经验可能会让你减少很多不必要的浪费,但太依赖经验也容易让你错失一些机会。
一个人可能在一个或多个领域里有所专长,甚至取得极大的成功,但这不意味着一个人可以在所有的领域里都能成功,所说的话都对,这显然是不可能的。而现实中人们往往容易被一个人所在的光环屏蔽了双眼,自然认为因为其所在领域成功,进而认为其所说(话)都自然而言是对的,毫无疑问的,而不是去有选择地去怀疑,这也就形成了人们经常所讲,“一个人成功了,放个屁都可能是正确的,而一个不成功的人,即便讲再正确的话,人们都有可能当其在‘放屁’。”这显然是令人尴尬的。
而以上情况,往往是我们在生活中经常会遇到的。要么盲目的自信,要么盲目地崇拜,这两种都是不可取的。盲目的自信或优越感会让人觉得非常莫名其妙,就如同你在电影院里刚看过超人电影,出了电影院幻想自己也可以像超人那般,显然这是很荒唐和站不住脚的。而盲目的崇拜更会令你迷失自我,心理上会造成一种“对方说什么都对”的错觉,而不是客观冷静地分析和思考,最典型的就是,为什么国内很多人容易被传销等洗脑,当然,除了金钱的诱惑,自我的欺骗和麻痹也是另外一个原因之一。
一个人如果不能学会独立思考,冷静分析,而是人云亦云,吃别人咀嚼过的食物,即便你再精通四书五经,也顶多是个图书馆存储而已。如果不能将自己所学知识和内容灵活运用到实践,而只是拿来卖弄和哗众取宠,那更是毫无意义的自我安慰。
人生不过短暂几十年,精彩和不断探索的人生才更值得向往和追求,活得精彩和有意义才是最令人无憾的。
stay hungry, stay fool
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亚里士多德在他的“形而上学”中告诉我们,哲学是对智慧的热爱,它惊奇地发现,惊叹于惊奇:
对于男人而言,开始并总是开始因敬佩而感动哲学......他提出一个问题或敬仰自己,认识到自己的无知,并且总是乐于学习而不相信自己高于他人(这是秘密):)
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be a quick learner.
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真理都是生活中悟出来的
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所以说我们这一代和上一代很容易有代沟,我们这一代经历的变化实在太大了,是上一代没有经历过的。他们要打破长久以来的惯性思维实在太困难了,所以大家很多时候想法都不在同一个频道 。。。
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A very detailed and well written Article on the philosophy of life by the very talented person and my friend @rivalhw.
This is very important topic and several people have written on it in several ways. Millions of quotes have been said on it only because of importance of this topic not only on the humanity but on all the other living things.
Dear @rivalhw I must say that you did a great job by elaborating this topic in your own way. You explained some points in very simple and decent way. Even a common man can understand your saying.
I must appreciate your approach towards life. Really today you proved that you're a genuine man with all the qualities of a LEADER.
God Bless You And Always Keep Smiling - Stay Blessed!
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我们必须在部门层面上处理这个问题,我们必须一起前进. 您之前讨论过所有问题,并且计划在我们中被告知,但我们中的许多人并不了解这一事实,我认为我们必须理解这些问题并运行该计划。
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Treating a new life, especially one that may undermine the traditional industry, I find that two people are generally more likely to adopt a negative attitude. One is a person who does not understand, and one who does not understand does not speak, because People can't rely on words. They are purely nonsense.
However, it is easy for another kind of person to hold a negative attitude, and such people are mostly professionals in the industry. If people who don’t understand understand it, we can laugh it off, but for professionals in those industries, they still hold it. There is a negative attitude, which makes people feel bizarre.
Thinking about it down is not surprising. A person who stays in his or her field of industry for a long time and is very skilled and knowledgeable about its related technologies, and whose self-confidence is self-evident, but it is also extremely easy to develop a kind of inertial thinking. When something new appears, it may be quite different from some of the traditional ones, and these differences are often somewhat different from the previous ones. For those who have long adapted to the old thinking, this is obviously the same as the previous ones. Those who are familiar with the situation are incompatible with nature. Inevitably, there will be intimacy in the heart. If one's heart is in trouble, many things cannot be viewed correctly and objectively, and judgments will naturally be somewhat out of place.
So I think that one person must be self-confident when doing something, but at the same time, he should not be overconfident, and self-confidence will often make you fearless and cranky, and too much self-confidence will obviously not work and be easy to conceit, and the consequence of self-conceit is often to believe too much. Some of his own judgments can no longer listen to different opinions or new ideas. As time goes by, he will certainly lose a lot of opportunities.
Always maintain a modest and progressive mentality. When you fail to understand new things, you will avoid high-profile reviews. Instead, you will study in a low-key manner. When you are optimistic, you will need to go head-up. Past experience may make you Reducing a lot of unnecessary waste, but too much experience can easily make you miss some opportunities.
A person may have expertise in one or more fields and may even achieve great success. However, this does not mean that one person can succeed in all fields. What is said is correct. It is obviously impossible. . In reality, people tend to be blinded by the halo of a person's whereabouts. They naturally think that because of their success in the field, they think that their words are naturally right, and there is no doubt that they have no choice but to choose. To suspect, this forms what people often say, "A person succeeds, and fart may be correct, and an unsuccessful person, even if correct, people are likely to be in it." Fart '.' This is obviously embarrassing.
The above situations are often encountered in our lives. Either blind self-confidence or blind worship, both of which are undesirable. Blind self-confidence or superiority can make people feel very baffling, just as you have just watched Superman movies in a movie theater. You can think of yourself as a superman in a movie theater. Obviously this is ridiculous and untenable. Blind worship will even make you lose yourself. It will psychologically create an illusion that “the other party is right,” instead of analyzing and thinking objectively and calmly. The most typical is why many people in China are susceptible to brainwashing and other brainwashing. Of course, apart from the temptation of money, self-deception and paralysis are also one of the other reasons.
If a person can't learn to think independently and analyze it calmly, he or she can only eat foods that others have chewed on. Even if you are proficient in four books and five classics, it is at best a library storage. If you can'
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有种人是不愿意接受新的知识和现实 而注定会被这个世界淘汰 ~
谦虚低调地学习才是生存之道呀 ~
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Todays Article On English Version:
Title: Talk about story learning Chinese activities and how to stimulate the author's creative enthusiasm?
You may have noticed that the "Listen to Learn Chinese" activity hasn't been updated much recently. Someone asked me what to do next. In fact, before answering this question, let me first talk about the original intention and idea of this activity.
The main purpose of launching this event is to hope that a new topic can be used to stimulate everyone’s creative enthusiasm, and this activity must have a long-term process, so that it can continue to inspire everyone’s passion; another point, there needs to be a A clearer goal, or the ultimate goal of doing this, and this time I accidentally thought of learning a Chinese language series, such as an idiom story.
We all know that Chinese culture is extensive and profound, and history is long-standing. Over the course of thousands of years of history, too many story idioms have been born. If we can use these idiom stories to export our culture, it is beneficial to our own people. The aspect can be translated into other foreign languages, I believe it is also a great benefit. Of course, taking into account the fast pace of life of people in modern society, and the fragmentation of time, we thought of learning Chinese by listening to stories. Therefore, the activity of “hearing stories in Chinese” was born in this context.
At the beginning, we hope to make three forms, including text, illustration, and audio. I wrote an example article, @dancingapple Apple specifically spent a few days to do illustrations, I feel very good.
I have always hoped that the content of the community will be diversified and enriched. It is not a single aspect or content that does not make any sense after reading. I also think that one’s efforts are limited after all. Only when everyone join together will it be driven. The prosperity of the entire Chinese community.
Next, how can the “Listen to Learn Chinese” activity be better? Look forward to good suggestions from everyone.
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我觉得一个人要时刻知道自己怕什么,真的无畏的人其实是很不“安全”的。
这次去学潜水,我因为害怕第一天都没有下水,也因为担心出问题,就格外关注自己都耳压、鼻子之类都感官。考试下来,身体上并没有什么大问题。
反倒是一路很顺利也很勇敢的同学们,毕业时有的上吐下泻、高烧,最严重的耳膜穿孔去了医院修复。
人生啊,还是要学会适当的“害怕”呢😊
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