I do understand what you are saying. My wife never really had that mother daughter relationship. she has more of that with my mother than with her own.
I will never come between my wife and her parents but the thing that have been said about my family and myself were unnecessary. They dont even make time to get to know my parents.

But you are right, I just need to get over their bad intentions and show them that I am the better person.
I do believe in that wheel that turns.
Thank you for the advice