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mafzaal92 (50) · 7 years ago (edited)

yes my brother @rok-sivante this is real. some words change your life. These words make your life happy or unhappy. correct usage of word in talking is a fun. God cannot gifted this talent to everyone. But my brother you are correct.
Thanks for sharing information about life, i hope you will share more life stories like this, in future.
you are doing very good work, keep it up my brother.

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masterlegend (50) · 7 years ago

its really great article
dear @rok-sivante
some words can give us a great insperation to lead a great life,,
by knowing some words we can be motivated,,,by dinnt of some words we can be a good man to eyes of all,,our happiness depends on some great word ,,
its really great post,,i appreciate
thanks for share

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mdriadrahman26 (49) · 7 years ago

dear sir
its great job our life depends on some valuable words,,,i realised it
that tow of my favourite quota is here given
“We live and breathe words. .... It was books that made me feel that perhaps I was not completely alone. They could be honest with me, and I with them. Reading your words, what you wrote, how you were lonely sometimes and afraid, but always brave; the way you saw the world, its colors and textures and sounds, I felt--I felt the way you thought, hoped, felt, dreamt. I felt I was dreaming and thinking and feeling with you. I dreamed what you dreamed, wanted what you wanted--and then I realized that truly I just wanted you.”
― Cassandra Clare, Clockwork Prince

“Never assume that the person you are dealing with is weaker or less important than you are. Some people are slow to take offense, which may make you misjudge the thickness of their skin, and fail to worry about insulting them. But should you offend their honor and their pride, they will overwhelm you with a violence that seems sudden and extreme given their slowness to anger. If you want to turn people down, it is best to do so politely and respectfully, even if you feel their request is impudent or their offer ridiculous.”

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

🙏

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rahmanmdriad (51) · 7 years ago

its reality
my dear @rok-sivante sir
i appreciate with you sir
by knowing key words we can arrange our life,,its great article
dear The words you use can make the difference between good leadership and bad leadership.
Good leaders know how to motivate
and inspire; bad leaders seem to excel
at criticism and negativity. When you need to lead a team, pick words that build them up.

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godsngh1 (48) · 7 years ago

we are each others keeper, who knows tomorrow all the same you did a great job boss

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andrianhabibi (56) · 7 years ago

when you write this post, there is something from within your awakened soul. a desire to share motivation. so that all readers of this paper realize the meaning of life.

as long as humans are on earth. we experience many obstacles that we create ourselves. greeting respect for your advice. thanks.

@andrianhabibi
Jakarta, Indonesia

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ayijufridar (74) · 7 years ago

Short meaningful words can be powerful mantras to bring winds of change compared to empty empty sermons. There is a saying in Indonesia, empty barrels sounded. Thank so much @rok-sivante.

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andrianhabibi (56) · 7 years ago

Im with you opinian brother @ayijufridar

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maulanazikri (44) · 7 years ago

Posting yang bagus sobat saya slalu menikmati pos ini sobat

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spiritualmax (64) · 7 years ago

Keep on posting, even if just once a week, experience tells me that if you "pause" something, you end up being too comfortable without doing it and never do it again.

Im one person that enjoys having you around, plus Id like to read a post of yours about that new condo one day. That would be sick!

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Pretty sure I will. And the quality will likely be better, given it’s coming solely from inspiration and intention to serve, rather than financial motivations.

That will probably be a celebration held in private... :-)

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shello (62) · 7 years ago

"Yeah, I might’ve gone back on my word about “stopping” writing on Steemit here. But, fuck it."

I don't mind! I was actually pretty stoked to see a new post from you today (wishing hard)! Your story of sharing a gondola ride with a stranger is what I feel that the big things really are the small things means.

You never know who you will impact or what can inspire another person. Even if it doesn't sound like a big deal to the person helping/ guiding, the person being helped can become forever changed.

Never stop impacting lives. I'm an introvert too, but just as you displayed—the small talks can lead to big discoveries ✨

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

💗

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shello (62) · 7 years ago

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bangmimi (68) · 7 years ago

That's right, I agree with your description sisters @shello

The point is never to underestimate the small things because all the great things start from small. Make it simple to be a great thing.

Stay in the spirit of Steemit and give the best of our ability. Is not it brother @rok-sivante?

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shello (62) · 7 years ago

Every large result is indeed the work of the tiniest actions! Stay blessed @bangmimi~

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bangmimi (68) · 7 years ago

Yes, exactly,
I think that's absolutely true to your opinion.

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greenrun (66) · 7 years ago

This is freedom decentralised on the blockchain. It's good to see your post once more. All those seemingly random chance may not really be as random as we thought.

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steemgh (59) · 7 years ago (edited)

Wow very inspirational and motivational post @rok-sevante. I was very broken when I shared too much of information with people who were not ready for it. It really affected my life as an individual and resulted in my fall. Along the line I realized too that not sharing ideas sometimes can be very costly especially when you are not certain about your decisions. Everything that I have done in my life and failed at were all because I was not well informed about my decisions. Thank you for moving out of your comfortzone and saving your unknown friend through your sensitization. I almost gave up on steemit when my account @steem4depoor was hacked but I came back. Steemit save not only my poor life but also saved my brothers life. Thanks for supporting me.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

it can be challenging at times knowing when and when not to share, and how much to share. t'is a sense/skill that perhaps just needs time - and mistakes - to develop, so can better assess what is most appropriate for individual situations...

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blacksweet (46) · 7 years ago

I think it's a very famous historical relic, like egypt, india and so on. Can historical heritage in Indonesia be raised into an interesting topic?

Can you give a litle answer brother @rok-sivante?

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

uh... not sure what you're talking about, this comment doesn't quite seem relevant to the topic at hand...

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blacksweet (46) · 7 years ago

That's what I am worried about the master, When interacting with different people of the country certainly a little difficult to understand. Because the culture and language we use are a little different, is not that a master?

So I changed the conversation a bit, about the image you put. is there any usefulness or meaning related to the content of the post?

I see a very popular and historic picture from some countries in your post. I am a little confused and is there anything to do with culture? if any country I also save a lot of ancient history, so I am interested in discussing it.

I'm sorry if my words are not related to the topic, I understand that. It's just that I can not describe in good and true language. Thanks for guiding me in a better direction.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

nothing special about the pictures in this one. just grabbed some off the computer quick to throw in, no particular relevance to the topic...

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blacksweet (46) · 7 years ago

Okay thanks master @rok-sivante, now I understand it.
How do you think if I comment but my English doesn't have perfection.

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molokwu (51) · 7 years ago

As an introvert I don't really feel the need to associate, being outside the circle allows you to see the circle wholly.

Sometimes I avoid discussions with the excuse that I already know how the discussion will end.

But like you said, if we don't interact with people, we might not know that we have the answers or solutions to their problems. Nicely done @rok-sivante

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ponpase (76) · 7 years ago

Hello master @rok-sivante

Sorry the last few days I was not present in the comment field. I am currently on one assignment, I am placed in one of the hardest to reach internet network. So, I'm having trouble translating all these languages. Lol, my english. This is not a response from me about what you are saying. I'm just trying to invite communication as a longing for your attention. Warm greetings from Aceh, Indonesia. Good luck always, thanks for the opportunities you give. good job ...

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Sorry the last few days I was not present in the comment field.

Ha ha, nothing to apologize for! And I haven't been posting either! :-)

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tashidelek (64) · 7 years ago

A great story! I feel very identified with taking the step to leave the comfort zone that is so negative at times for us. Congratulations!

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flashfiction (57) · 7 years ago

One of the few things that remain from us when we are gone is words.

Words. In paper, in the internet, in the heart of others.

Words are the tool we have for making ourselves last.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

💖

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blacksweet (46) · 7 years ago

True buddy, those words are messages that continue to imprint until we meet him again.

Hopefully I also get many messages yes, greetings friendship @rok-sivante and @flashfiction

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ambrosial (47) · 7 years ago

I am right there with you about chit-chat. It's one of the reasons I hate talking on the phone. If there is a reason to call, ok. But if not, then it is just awkward trying to fill the void with words.

However, it is truly amazing how sometimes, just the littlest thing can have a major impact. When I was in boot camp, there was a guy that was just like the one from full Metal Jacket. Looked like him, suffered as he did, and seemed to be losing it just like he did.

Long story short, after boot camp he came up to me and thanked me. When I asked for what, he said for saving his life. I was astounded. All I did was be nice to him and treat him like the human being that he is.

It's truly amazing what impact simple gestures have. Imagine how many there are that we don't recognize, but mean the world to another person.

In short, just be nice, people. Sometimes, that's all it takes! 😊

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

🙏

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chidiebere (54) · 7 years ago

I am filled with thoughts, worries and anxiety over what I have, want and need to do even though I try to follow my to do list of the day. My thoughts are clouded about things and people that mean the world to me, thinking of what difference I could make in their lives. I try as much as possible to speak to people I meet daily with words of encouragement, advising them in the little way I can. But is that really enough, I keep asking myself. What can I do better to help people, touch lives and make a difference? That’s just what my mind yeans, but just how far can one go to help people and touch their
lives.

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aldercysteem (45) · 7 years ago

In this comment field I see some people are very lucky to get your attention. Regard brother @rok-sivante, my name is @aldercysteem

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Luck has nothing to do with it.

The quality of their engagement does. ;-)

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bangmimi (68) · 7 years ago

Haha (Lol)

Absolutely @rok-sivante effort hard without complaining.
I like your wisdom in making decisions so we continue to get support.

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aldercysteem (45) · 7 years ago

This quality ... challenged me to improve the quality of my post. If you do not mind, you can correct my post a few days ago. thanks....@rok-sivante

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fonsetucker (47) · 7 years ago

Oh, I'm kind of sad you are not going to write anymore. I actually enjoyed your posts quite a lot and started exploring things outside of my comfort zone. I think it was you who talked about that guy Sevan Bomar... well I read his book, The Code To The Matrix. A lot to take in, but it made me realized I also have been in touch with my other half, without even realizing it (mostly when I'm stoned).

Well, it made me start writing, and I didn't even know I had so many ideas in my head. I am a credit analyst for living, so writing is not really what I do, but I actually enjoy it.

Anyway, I was about to delete all this comment and move on, because that's what I do, but since you are not going to post anymore, then I will keep it, post it and wish you the best in your future.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Awesome feedback. Very cool to hear. :-)

I won’t be quitting writing 100% - as evidenced by going back on my word with this post, lol. Just cutting way back. Which is probably a good thing for readers too - as it’ll ensure the quality output is higher, coming strictly from inspiration and intentions to serve, rather than financial motivations being thrown in the mix.

Keep up the writing, enjoy the Bomar rabbit hole, and see ya ‘round... ;-)

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fonsetucker (47) · 7 years ago

Great to hear that, looking forward to your future posts.

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penasantri (43) · 7 years ago

I sure @rock-sivante about you opinion

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pojan (67) · 7 years ago (edited)

I'm sure some words will change lives, maybe not enough with advice, but we have to enjoy them with behavior. and maybe some people will be very difficult to change, I do not know why it can be difficult, maybe they spend a lot of life with hangers, afraid to fight hard life or lazy to do some action. thanks @roksivante, you've done a useful argument for everyone, and I feel it.

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putraabdal (51) · 7 years ago

good story. but I did read a bit earlier but you want to stop writing in steemit, is that true or is it just a joke, if that's true why you stop writing in steemit ..

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

as stated earlier: burnt out - on writing, Steemit, and social media in general.

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putraabdal (51) · 7 years ago

ohhh .. means you never stop in steemit right ?? ..

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tfame3865 (74) · 7 years ago

Yes just burn out and when the inspiration comes, he will jumo back @rok-sivante @putraadbal

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Ha ha! Somehow it wouldn't surprise me should you be proven correct on this. 🔮😈

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putraabdal (51) · 7 years ago

ha .. ha .. where tau sometimes true .. ha .. ha ..

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blacksweet (46) · 7 years ago

May I comment? though my steemit account is rarely active, but despite the new steemit world I know, like having a new life, a new atmosphere, new challenges and new science. here I have many friends.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

mmm... this really doesn't seem relevant to the conversation.

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blacksweet (46) · 7 years ago

Sorry if my English is not good, I understand that it is less about the conversation cap

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happysmart (44) · 7 years ago

No comment

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

:-|

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kadafi (47) · 7 years ago

Postingan yang sangat indah.

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clausewitz (60) · 7 years ago

It is always inspiring to read your posts, and a lesson to be learned in any situation awaits those who are ready for it!

Only comfortable and egoistic minds would spare others wisdom and guidance, even how small or large of a matter it regards.

I am glad you are still writing, was scared for a while that you would leave us hehe you should write, because I have a feeling that more then 1 person will feel inspired by your wisdom :)

Peace

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khaidiral (45) · 7 years ago

After I read the article you share it crossed my mind that we live need the same as you say you are lazy chatting with other people but now you say the lazy habit can not always exist in you. My reader of my article very agree customs that do not fit should we throw away and we learn new habits that can be a benefit for others. When we communicate with each other there will be new things that we never tau.maka communication between people is very important in living this life.
Greetings from @khaidiral for you who always give the best.

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mukhtar.juned (59) · 7 years ago

Wew ... i'm late read your post @rok-sivante

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jakeybrown (57) · 7 years ago

I think this is something many of us overlook, our opportunities to influence other people in our daily life.

I know I bump into strangers, and like you I tend to not start the conversation, but some people are ready for a little chat. Especially when I'm packing my baby around haha.

I used to basically mindlessly small talk to try and get it over with as quickly as possible, but not I just try to hear what the other person is saying and see where I can either be a positive influence in my attitude or in some small piece of information.

Part of me is turned off from giving advice anymore because my advice isn't very standard at all and some people are taken aback. But really it seems like our job almost after reading this, like you said, we all pick things up at different rates, we all discover things at different times, maybe that is the greatest strength of humanity, the ability to share knowledge we've taken away from experience.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Part of me is turned off from giving advice anymore because my advice isn't very standard at all and some people are taken aback.

Perhaps it might be worth contemplating and exploring - through different approaches - the distinction between giving advice and more casually, sharing perspectives.

Advice... it may be natural to get some resistance - especially if it's not outright asked for - as there's something about it that seems like a directive, often imbued with some degree of assumptions and judgement, given we rarely know the full scope of a person's situation and what precisely they need to get to their intended goals.

Merely sharing perspectives - offering a differing point of view for the sake of exploration, perhaps with an invitation for a person to try it on for themselves and see what's there that may be of value to them - it's a whole different ballgame...

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jakeybrown (57) · 7 years ago

Well put, this is a distinction we should all take note of, I will keep this in mind in my interactions with people. Thanks @rok-sivante

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munawar87 (57) · 7 years ago

Many small and simple things around us sometimes we realize it is even more valuable. His writing is very enlightening and reflects a principle in life. Thank you for your knowledge Master @rok-sivante for the knowledge you devote to us.

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munawar87 (57) · 7 years ago

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jubagarang (62) · 7 years ago

Who are you sir? Wear your face, I want to say hello. only two days I see you sir. and the master seems to be very kind. always here sir. because we still need you. stay here. not you who need steemit but steemit need someone like you.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

Plenty of gold nuggets if you look backwards in the content I’ve posted over the last two years... ;-)

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jubagarang (62) · 7 years ago

well sir, I will see it, all because of my curiosity towards the lord. greetings respect from me your new admirer (because of your kindness)

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zero-infinity (52) · 7 years ago

I step outside my comfort zone all the time whenever I do an oracle reading for people.

When I do a reading I do not know which directions it may go at first until I actually gauge the energies. Then I have to deliver what I perceive as the Truth in a responsible manner. I have been reading for myself and my close friends for years as we navigated through our complex projects. I have just started reading for people I do not know when I started this blog a few weeks ago and it has been a freak'n adventure in the acquisition of Self Knowledge.

Oracles are not always 100% accurate. There are times when the signal to noise ratio may not be ideal; but I do my best to minimize these things by eating vegan/low on the food chain, taking care of my body, and of course various meditation practices ranging from tantric sex to simple yet potent Qabalistic meditations.

My favorite part of stepping out of my comfort zone when doing a reading? Those somewhat rare and intense moments when I am confronted by shocking Truths about myself when I reflect on a reading I am doing for somebody... and come across things I have never thought of before.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

well, based on the one you gave me last week, I'd say you're on the right track... ;-)

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imranpase (48) · 7 years ago

ro-divante Thnks

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hermanlc (52) · 7 years ago

If we want to succeed then we should get out of the comfort zone. warm regards @hermanlc

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phonbyte (28) · 7 years ago

Nice posting @rok-sivante

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arii (41) · 7 years ago

Sorry I'm always late in posting you allow me to comment a bit about your post @rok-sivante believe me using touching words I think life can change, maybe that's one way to use language that touches someone's heart, maybe not just by words are still many other ways to change a person's life, but I really like touching words. thanks @rok-sivante who has written a very useful post for the crowd, I really like to read your post.

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muksalmi (49) · 7 years ago

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barrister-batman (54) · 7 years ago

I have a friend with the same philosophy.

I've known her about 4 years now, has the prettiest smile. One day she was in a really bad mood and was explaining to me, but she still beamed her brightest smile at everyone we walked past.

"All this your wahala (problem) and you're still smiling at people?"

She chuckled and replied that you never know who needs a smile. That if she carried a frown around that she might help make more unhappy people, and who wants that?

She added that although she didn't have it on record that her smile helped anyone, she didn't see any harm in trying.

This post reminded me of her. I'm going to tell her that there is in fact a record; my 1st day in university, looking confused with my monstrously patchy beard and dorky glasses, and a bright beaming face looking up at me solving all the problems I didn't even know I had.

A few words are indeed powerful. But even if you don't have those, a simple smile will suffice.

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

😇💖

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rauzaljm (67) · 7 years ago

Dear master @rok-sivante I started following you, I am interested to hear someone's story about you @ rok-sivante about your post which in recommendation be required reading for us beginners in this platforms.

You have unique ways to educate, you have a savage and rough mouth, but he believes your heart is as soft as silk. Many things he can from your blog. Many words are straightforward and definite, as well as many cool terms.

And I've read your post, I found a positive aura in every word you write. Very inspiring and motivating. Thank you so much @rok-sivante 😊

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

🙏

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rauzaljm (67) · 7 years ago

😇

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penasantri (43) · 7 years ago

Commitment one a way be can succes

Ali Fahmi||@penasantri

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isabellemonisse (51) · 7 years ago

Hi, Rok-sivante! Thank you for this article, for me it was definitely worth it reading it and I'm sure it will reach many people who needed to read or hear these words. I stumbled on your profile while looking for information about Bali and I'm impressed by your writings. Hopefully, you will continue to post. There is so much wisdom in your words!

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rok-sivante (75) · 7 years ago

🙏💓

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mariska.lubis (67) · 7 years ago

Totally agree with you. Word is not only word, word really changes the world. All changes that happened in this world start from words. Word is even stronger than any weapon.

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