We mostly talk about the kind of people that one doesn’t really need in life. There is a whole list of the kind of people that one should keep a distance from and the toppers of this list are those negative people who find a problem with every solution. This statement might seem exaggerated but unfortunately, there really are people around us who like to live in a delusional world where according to them, there are problems in everything and every way. Instead of finding possibilities, they count on impossibility factor.
While most people are aware of such kind of crowd by the time they reach thirty, not many are able to recognize the true friends and well-wishers until difficult times fall upon them. Here is a list of the kind of people that one needs in life to keep it simple, drama free and fun! They say that the right kind of people truly become a source of motivation in one's life. Find your source of motivation through this list
1- Your Listening Buddy
Everybody goes through difficult times. Sometimes we find ourselves in such situations that we don’t even feel like talking about it. It takes courage to actually speak up about it or even to be able to share it with someone without the fear of being judged. At such times, the best kind of people are the ones who are ready to listen to you and understand you. Listeners are your well-wishers who are not sitting around to just see you cry and feel bad about yourself, they are the ones who are there to let you open up and share your concern without any fear.
2- Your personal Motivational Speaker
Have you ever heard a professional motivational speaker when he's up there on the stage sharing the life experience and making you learn from it? Well, that one stranger guy somehow manages to move a lot of people and make them believe in themselves. Likewise, everyone needs that one person in their life that are there during the highs and the lows. During a good time they are there to celebrate with you and during the bad times, they are there to motivate you. These are the kind of friends who make sure that you know your worth and that you deserve everything in life that you wish for, provided that you get it!
3- Your soul mate
If you still haven’t identified your soul mate then here is a way to do so. Try staying quite with someone for a while and notice who you are the most comfortable with. Your soul mates are the kind of people who heal you spiritually and keep you intact with your inner self. They constantly remind you of who you are as a person and what makes you happy and feel content with your life. Interestingly, you don’t have to meet such kind of people on a regular basis to stay connected with them. Even if you meet them after ages, the connection is still there and you instantly feel it.
4- Your personal advisor
You need to choose this person wisely. Whether it’s about your career choices or your personal life, you should have a mentor in your life that guides you through it. They really need to know your journey and struggles, interests and hobbies and pretty much everything about you to guide you accordingly. They should play the part of being your mentor and let you in on their experiences as well so that you can learn from them and follow their footsteps as well as apply it to your own life.
5- The one that makes you feel loved
We can't deny the fact that everybody wants to be loved. Its human nature and being loved is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world. Love works like a medicine to the depressed souls and keeps one alive every day. This person could be anyone or a group of people from your family or friends circle. Identifying such people is the easiest because you don’t really have to look for them, you will know with time who really loves you and who just likes to use big words.
In life, you will come across many different kinds of people. With time, you will be left with a very few loyal friends and well-wishers. Your job is to identify them and keep them close to you in every walk of life because truly, life becomes much more meaningful with the right kind of people by your side.
Are there any one in this work with those five kind of people in their life?
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This article placed a up curve on my face. While in a situation of chaos, you become numb and you don't figure out whom you need. This is truly a helpful piece of work. :) keep up the good work. Kudos to you!
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Good post, maybe you left out the funny and annoying friend, we tend to even love them more.
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Oh yes, maybe next if i wrote about this then I'll add them, they are really important part of life, Thanks for reminder
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When we get all these things in one person that is called soulmates .
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Ideally yes
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I think people who listen to you and those that make sure you are still in contact withyour inner self (those you don't have to pretend around ) are the people you really need
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observant in choosing a friend is one thing that is very important, good relationships and close to friends is communication. poor communication will cause negative side, so friendship does not get along. @sameer777 (58)
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Agreed
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It is true that the people that you tend to see on a regular basis and that you listen to will greatly influence your Life, so I totally agree with the fact that everyone should carefully select the circle of friends that he/she chooses to spend time with.
But it's not always so easy to find these people, and many times the person we need in a moment isn't there.
We have to create each of these 5 qualities within Ourselves. We have to be our Listening Buddy, our Motivational Speaker, our own Soul Mate, our Personal Adviser and the one that Loves us.
We always tend to be harder on ourselves than on people around, so it's not easy to befriend ourselves, but I think that it's a goal worth pursuing.
Great post Mr. @Sameer777 ! Thanks for sharing, following now. :)
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Great advice here :) It's interesting how you use a utilitarian approach to describing the people we should surround ourselves by. But really, I completely agree with this- often I think we can choose to surround ourselves with people just because they seemed nice, when in reality they don't understand us or worse, they may even be harmful.
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I think listening to yourself is the most important thing.
Your inner voice is the wisest one, I have found in my life.
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Thanks for the great read! I love my friends and everything they add to my life. Yes, I have friends that I can share everything with, some that comfort, some that guide, some that get wild with me and laugh about life...each one adds a different spice. I love my men friends too as they add a whole different aspect!
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very good article. I like it very much
Please keep writing about inspiration
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