I have 3 opinions on this issue.

1. family disagreements are so unique, if we can respond it will strengthen our relationship. I think you are experienced in dealing with any situation.

2. in the relationship of a pair of men and women, women are always right even though the situation is opposite hahaha LOL.
   There is a saying from my father, the woman is like a bone if too drawn will be broken. And if we follow, he will continue to bend

3. we are united in a marriage bond not because what we think is always the same, but we want to find common ground in all the differences.