but, like, he's amazing. He treats me wonderfully, he's a "say it like it is" kind of guy, super sweet, he is the perfect compliment to my personality. We're completely different and that's why we get along so well. We compensate for each other's strengths and weaknesses. We live more of a traditional way, which is what's expected of his culture. But it doesn't bother me. I never feel disempowered, and I never feel "oppressed" which is what A LOT of people assume of me lollollol