How to strengthen your love relation

in life •  7 years ago 

If you don’t see, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist: love

In this fantasy world, it’s very common to fall in love and it’s very common to get misunderstanding with your loved ones. Studies have shown that over expectation is one of the major causes that lead to breakups in relationships, but the conflict is love can’t last without any expectations.

This blog is dedicated to all men and women who wish to strengthen their love relationship and want to live together forever. Now let me take you to the simple psychological tactics of strengthening your love relationship.

In a price of paper, write three expectations that you always want from your lover. In the same paper, write three expectations that your lover should not expect from you at any cost. Both men and women have to prepare this kind of letter and exchange themselves. Refer the sample template to get an idea.

What I expect from you

Don't expect from me

  1.    By,
       
       .....................
    

Once exchanged it is often necessary for you to take a look of your partner paper to ensure are you fulfilling the expected expectations and expecting only what your partner could offer. To give a personalised touch is also a good idea to decorate your letter before exchanging it to your partner.

You need to take some time (one or two days) to think about the expectations before you write them on paper as it is going to be the final assault to prevent the breakups. The list should not exceed more than three items. If the list exceeds more than three then it may lead to over expectations so it is good to keep the list small and minimal.

By giving and getting this kind letter you are making your lover to understand your plus and minus without having any serious talks. He /She could easily balance you well if they took those exceptions to their hearts & mind.

That's it. Let me know if this simple tip is helpful in your life in the comments below.

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Looks very interesting. But I don't see the need for myself, since me and my wife already live together for more than 20 years.

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