Spend money to gain experience, not behind worldly goods

in life •  7 years ago 

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After every day of the month inconveniences and after the expense of the money, after the end of the month, there is little meaning. Do not blow them out in the best case. Spend your little money in such a place that makes you happy.

You often spend unnecessary money. The money that we do not spend is that we can live if we buy things that we spend without buying it for free without which it is no longer useful. We waste a lot of money in this way, I share an example below in this context. I am with you

For example, when you walk in the street, you have a look at a vase. The thing is so beautiful that he could not move his eyes away from it. Because of which seven-five did not think you bought the flower bed.

But before buying the vaseodhi, you did not think that you have any profit in purchasing it. Or will there be a floral ward along with a flowerpot in the house? Do not worry about these things, if you buy this case, you have a floral food in your house. Now you do not need any of your cousins. You like to buy flowers in your eyes. You have not bought anything before thinking about it.

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✔Remove bad habit

Professor of Psychology at the University of Kernell. Thomas Gilovich After nearly 20 years of research, it came to the conclusion that

Should not spend much on purchasing things. Because the attraction to these things goes away very quickly. Permanent love is never made for them. When you have more things, you will feel that you do not have much significance because you have not come from your mind when you are sitting on a thing that you will not have, and then you will have a lot of love for that thing and it is very nice to Let your life flow

There are basically three complex problems responsible for this.

  • ✅Losing too fast attention.

The thing that you think is new and fancy today, tomorrow may be as simple and unassuming as possible. This is the problem of everyone, the item that will be useful to you, you will easily lose the demand that you can not afford to pay the item well, so it has been said to lose the fast catch

  • ✅Expectancy mercury is high.

New things come with new prospects. And that hope is so much that we forget about the things we have been doing. When we get new things, we forget the old things when we get something new when we get the new things we had in front of the things that we used to go before we lost acceptability so that the expectation of new things should be done much more

  • ✅Seeing the things of others jealous.

Your new buying car will be good just as long as your friend will buy a better car than you. It is a kind of jealousy when you see people around you will work on your head when you are doing better than you think it is a bad idea to make them feel better for them.

Gilovich said,

"The biggest enemy of our happiness is the desire to change or change repeatedly. We buy something for our own happiness. But he is happy for a while. Whenever any new thing comes to us again, then forget about the previous thing and get up with the new one."

The practice of waste should be removed as soon as possible. And it is in the student life. If you start right from the student life, you will not be able to come into the life of your life. You can be better in your student life. You can do everything in your student life. You will not be able to do any work in your life. I will do it later in the career. I will do it later. Now do not need to do it now. You can avoid talking about different types of time

We will be glad to buy any item with money but it will not be remembered if the item has expired. We think for a long time that we can touch the thing that we can see; It has permanent status. But it is completely wrong. These are usually the ones we want to accept. The words that you think are actually I think that you have been created from the wrong idea that the thing we bought for money is worth a lot more than you have to spend your money, you should be very cautious

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✔Experience Power

According to Gilovich and other researchers,

The ability to gain experience from the effectiveness of an object is more lasting.

Because-

The experience became part of our identity. What we always buy is not the key. Rather, what we do and where we go are all the topics discussed. If a person is first seen with you then he will not wait for any way you ask where you bought it. It is actually the main thing to everyone. What do you do where you go? Qiqi is discussing different issues but in some way you ask Do not you have bought things in the first place

The newly purchased Apple Watch will not have any impact on our personality but going to track IT courses. These will affect your personality a few times!

Gliwovitch also said,

"External resources have more impact on our lives

Our experience is dropped. Your favorite thing

You may have many choices. Can think

That's a part of your identity, but it's

Despite this, you will be able to cut off this fascination.

Conversely, your experience is yours

Identity

  • ✅Some people from Harvard University were asked that they want to get less or less salary from their friends? Most could not answer this question. But whenever the question was taken with less or more holidays, then everyone spoke more than one sentence. Because this is the time to get the experience of your marijuana as it is during this holiday.

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According to Gilovich, expecting an experience rather than expecting something to buy will create more excitement. The expectation of buying anything else just increases the unrest. But from the beginning of the experience to the end, we end up in our joy and provide the desire to do better.

✔important experience

It has sometimes happened that one thing has been bought by many hobbies, but you did not like it after the purchase? Every time you see the thing, am I regretting? Or just think that the money was just drained in the water?

We often face such negative experiences. But these are temporary experiences. So it is better to take the lessons from the front!

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True that!

Smart spending money is making your budget look like it's bigger than it is. It's about making a plant how to - and on what to spend your money.
Use your money well and firstly on things you really need. If possible it's best to invest money in something that will bring you money back.

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