In life, you'll often meet roadblocks along the way. It is practically inevitable. Difficult choices will have to be made and you'd always have to live with the consequences of your actions. Many people cower in fear when faced with such choices or doom their lives to the choices made by others because they fear to take responsibility. It is never a good idea to let others make the hard decisions for you. You must be strong enough to face whatever comes as a result of your choices and deal with it head-on. Then, and only then will you feel the true satisfaction that comes from guiding your own life and succeeding.