I am thinking a lot. Probably it is the problem of most of the people writing and leading their blog on steemit? :)
Ok, coming to what i wanted to say.
- It is kind of unbelievable how we can influence the lives of other people.
On Friday I have watched an awesome movie "Freedom Writers" with Hilary Swank as a main actress.
Source: media.kg-portal.ru
That is an incredible story of how one person, in this case a teacher, can change your life. It is so important not simply judging people, but listening to them, trying to understand their feelings, their pain...respecting them...winning their trust and talking with them on their language.
What is the next step? Instead of feeling and demonstrating pity you should just lead this person, show then another side of the life and make them believe in themselves. That is unbelievable, right? But one of the best presents we could make to someone is to understand and to help them to believe in themselves...
Think about this people...Think how can you make someone smile, how you make someones' day better and how can you inspire someone...Otherwise, your life looses any sense. Think about it...
P.S. Short story about this topic...
During my bachelor studies I had a professor with whom i had an emotional discussion about one business topic. I was sure that i was right and was sticking to my position. After that case he used every opportunity to tease and provoke me. So, as you can imagine, it was not my favorite professor ever.
Once, i was sitting in cafe, close to my University. I was preparing something for my Bachelor Thesis. And this Professor was sitting nearby with another student discussing his project. When his conversation was over, this professor came to me for a while, asked whether he could take a sit. He asked me about my plans for the future, how I see it and what I wanna do. I shared my plans (which at that moment seemed to me like a dream, that i most probably would never be able to realize. But i didn't say that to my professor, of course). And then out of nothing, he looked into my eyes and said: "Valeria, you know, I am sure you will reach everything you want in this life. There is something about you, that says me, that you are very strong girl inside and if and when you really want something, you will make it happen. No matter how and what you think about this now. Just believe me. And keep what I have just said in mind".
Should I tell you, guys, how much this single phrase of my professor helps me within my life way...? Whatever happened to me, I knew, that I am strong and that I reach whatever I want...I just have to believe in it.
Thank you, dear Professor V.!
