I got an email from a book reader, just call Mrs. Asri, who complained that she had tried hard to raise her income but always failed. After reading The Secret of Mindset and listening to Ego State Therapy CD he found a program of thought that hinders her, especially in the financial aspect.
It turns out, when he got married, he got a discourse from his mother, "Son, remember yes ... later when a wife, love your husband sincerely, good at times like grief, serve wholeheartedly, place the husband as head of household, feelings and dignity of the husband, do not exceed your husband ....... "
The reader, the discourse (read: the program) is certainly very good. But it becomes a problem because this program actually hinders the efforts of Mrs. Asri to increase her income. Inquired to have a look at Mrs. Asri's income at the same time with her husband's income. So when he tried to raise his income there are always obstacles. This program is inhibiting and the goal is also very "positive" that is for Mrs. Asri can be a good wife according to his mother's discourse.
How, obviously now?
A program, as long as it is not inhibiting ourselves then do not be tampered with. Leave it alone. Do not be confused. There are colleagues who, after reading the book and understand about mental block, so diligent search for various mental blocknya. Even to complain, "Sir, I really do not find my mental block ya?".
Lha, if there is no trus what should be forced there? Is not it better if the time is spent learning and developing? Concerns for not finding a mental block can actually be a new mental block.
Then, how the right attitude?
Yes, just relax. Do not be weird. We must be neutral. During our life happy, business smoothly, all goes as we plan and expect then do not have a headache about mental block.
Mental block will we feel when there is resistance or resistance to achieve a higher target. This rejection also arises when we want to change.