Changing your life for the better

in life •  7 years ago 

Thinking about life is an important subject of everyone. It is necessary for everyone to take time to “think” seriously. Unfortunately, Human being are too busy to do such kind of thing. And what human being are concerning and busy about is often not that important to life.

Today, let’s put down your work now and spend a few minutes to think about something that we ignore because of too busy. Please answer the following questions seriously, as they are very important to your life:

What is the meaning of your life?
What do you want to contribute to the world?
How do you want to spend your life to be wonderful?
What kind of life is you desire for?
What is the real important thing for you?
What kind of thing you think it’s valuable for you to spend time on?
When you grow old, what kind of memorable things do you want to have?
Do you want to regret giving up your dream when you grow old?

There may not be an answer for these questions. But think about it. It gives you an in-depth understand of yourself as well as your life. The most important thing is, you will understand what is important, and therefore to reform your life.

You may find that, what you are now spending most of your time on is simply meaningless. They may only support your basic need or physical enjoyment. On the contrary, you ignore something that is very important for you, for example, your family.

Think about your life

Assuming you are now reforming, or reorganizing your life, and find a new job that you like, preferring to develop, and less work time. Although the salary reduces, you may have more time with your family, more time for further studies. Plus, this job is your interest, with room for development. In the long run, this job is better for you.

Apart from job, there are more and more example. The reason for “thinking” about life is to make you discover what you are doing now is meaningless, and to remind you to reform your life, so as to arrange the schedule of your life more effectively. It’s not limited to work, but also a relationship, a friend zone, a habit, and others.

For example, if you are in a relationship with a person that there is no future, is it want you are really desiring for? You may say yes. But if you really answer is no, it is necessary to separate as soon as possible. Taking a friend zone as another example, if there is a friend zone you really don’t want to be involved, why don’t you leave them and get a new friend zone which you are happy with, or beneficial to you? Just because you are used to be?

When we “thing” carefully, we may find that the things we spend most of the time on are usually the most worthless. And we spend only little on what is really important to our life.

THINK about your life

We understand that everyone has to live, have to spend a lot of time at work even if the work is meaningless. But at the same time, please don’t ignore those really important to our life: family, friends, health, learning, dreams, contributions…etc. When we grow old, we don’t want to have nothing memorable, nothing to be proud of, nothing is worth, but something meaningless and we spent whole my life on them.

“THINK” about your life, and live a new life

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