Chinese girl #3: How do girls live well in China?

in life •  7 years ago  (edited)

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At these gatherings, it's quite normal for us to introduce un-acquainted girls to each other thus making our circle of friends larger and larger. This usually happens around dinner, afternoon tea or even at Karaoke.
PS:All the photos are my own.
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From an outsider's view, a group of attractive girls with good education and good family background may seem dis-interested in socialising with unfamiliar people.
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Infact, this is not true at all. When around guys they don't know, the default action is to freeze up and hide their real feelings. It would appear that they are being cold. When you attempt to communicate with them, they will start appearing busy replying to messages on their phone, and even take phone calls. It's as if they are happy to spend endless time with their online friends than make any time to speak with you.
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In reality, you needn't worry because as long as you have patience and gradually make effort to understand their lives, you'll realise that girls are not as passive "cold" as you first think.
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What happens when I introduce my girlfriends to each other? You would think that the shy girls would shy away to their phones and avoid socialising but you are wrong. Quite the opposite. The cold goddess like girls of old become extremely social and take any opportunity given to befriend new acquaintances.

So why is it that girls who meet each other for the first time can take pictures and and post them to all the main social networks?
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I think it's because a girls friendship circle is very important. Perhaps part of the reason is we want to let everyone know that our friendship circle is large, and I have many friends. This is why we don't just take pictures with our closest friends, instead we take them with every new acquaintance.
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Với một cô gái, đây là một bước rất quan trọng để phát triển mối quan hệ với bạn bè mới.

Once the food is served, we love to take pictures of the food. I have one friend who loves taking pictures of the food to the point that we have to wait for every single dish to come and for her to take a complete picture before we can start to eat.
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And that pretty much what it's like when chinese girls meet, isn't it unique? Actually there's so much more to it but i'll post more in the future.

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