I often noticed bad thoughts and the bad decisions which depends on them. So for me it helps to always see problems as chances for decision making and for a change. Think positive about it and take the challenge. We should be thankful for the possibility to make decisions and the ability to do things in our manner.
I love to see things positive, because there is always an option to get something positive out of every situation. And the good feeling is not just for you, it's also a benefit for the people around you.
Love your life :)