Signing off: A trial separation or two

in life •  7 years ago 

Tonight, my wife and I are going to go out to dinner, perhaps even live on the edge and have dessert but I am sceptical as to how it will go because, it will be our first attempt at separation.

We just dropped our daughter to stay with her grandparents for an overnight visit. The only times we have ever both been away from her for the night was in the first days of her life, when she was in the intensive care unit at the hospital with a few minor complications.

Let's see how it goes but I am hoping well so that this can become a little bit more of a regular thing so my wife and I can perhaps go out a little further than a sushi bar, and maybe even start dancing again. With her studies, my working schedules and our daughter between, we don't really spend much time together.

It will actually be two separations of sorts tonight as I will try not to be online at Steemit or in chat and instead get some junk food (after the sushi) and watch a movie with my wife. I can't remember the last time I really had an evening away from here so it will most likely do me some good to get some space. At least, it will give my VP a chance to recover some. A little distance is healthy for a relationship they say.

The photo is from a taxi ride to a Salsa bar in Barcelona and our first trip away together. Even though it isn't the greatest quality image, it is one of my favourites of my wife as, she seems happy. I wonder where that woman went... :P

Anyway, I wish you all a great Saturday and if all goes well I will see you tomorrow. If not, I will see you in a few hours.

Taraz
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Have a nice date night @tarazkp and enjoy. Its always nice for a couple to spend some time just for themselves. Oh, and your post made me remember how much i miss Salsa :)

I miss it too.

Hey!! you two.. Say it!! I won't miss Salsa anymore!! }:)

And if that was not enough to convince you that I'm talking very seriously here...

Think again!! :)

I can't dance to that... :D

Of course you can. I am the one who couldn't figure out how you wouldn't. };)

You should arrange your times, for example the family and the wife in particular should be very interested with your daughter . And to roam with them every weekend
Do not let work distract you from living in your life

Good luck, I’m sure baby will be fine.
Although I was terrible, my first time away from my daughter was only to g to the hospital to have my son. Lol.

aww hope you have a fabulous date night with your lovely wife!

It's great that you finally found time for a romantic evening with your wife. Despite the fact that we really love our children, we should not forget about our other halves. It makes marriage stronger!

I don't know anything about your life because I've only recently started following you. All I know is that I really enjoy your posts so I wish you the best.

I hope both your separations went well and I hope you and your wife had fun last night. You're right, every relationship needs away time to work and you need to go dancing, or go have fun, especially with your family.

By the way, lovely photo :) Your wife is really beautiful and seems really happy.

You do not want me to tell you about the future, so I won't! Be very happy with today and tonight! Tomorrow will be ok without you dwelling there now.

Have some faith in your grandparents and your daughter Taraz, and enjoy the hard earned time spent with your wife. Have a lof of fun and hopefully you can set aside the (understandable) worrying part while doing so.

Hallo @tarazkp Very romantic ...
After reading your article, you love your wife, this is a very in want all women,
Hopefully you guys keep romantic relationships until old .thanks for sharing nice post

@tarazkp I hope that you ended up having a great evening and I agree the photo of your wife is wonderful... She does look so happy :) It's so important to have "our" time away from the kids and the matrix... :)

Have a great dinner.Enjoy the time with your wife as if you are still bachelor..Wishing a great journey!

Enjoy.

You totally roped me in with that one. I was wary that it might not be what you were implying, but you still had be going for a minute.
That's great you and your wife were able to get a date night together. And it should be healthy for your daughter to start building even small bits of her independent personality while at the same time building her relationship with her grandparents.
Hope the experiment goes well. See you tomorrow!

There's always got to be time to dance. I've been Salsa dancing for about 5 years and I love it. All the best!

Thanks :)

Very romantic ...
After reading your article, you love your wife, this is a very in want all women,
Hopefully you guys keep romantic relationships until old

Date night is SO important to your marriage! Enjoy dessert. :D

I just found out i live on the edge, because i always have dessert when i go out for dinner. Wishing you a great night and i'm sure your daughter will grow accostumed to it and you will have many more date nights with you and your wife just together. Go easy on the junk food :P

lol, thanks.

What I love, I do not know today. I do not have any wish or not. It is astonishing that sometimes, when I wake up in the deep night, I hear the voice of the unreal, I see the mythical scene. Break the silence of the night and roar in my ears, There is no sea on the back.
If I do not have the moon in the sky and I see the full moon, I can recognize every star in the sky in the clouds. And on some other days, when a well-lit air is heard, first you can hear the name of a musical instrument, a beautiful melody, then whoever sings sweet melody more than the birds of the dawn

Do not think we're floating in the sea at night,
A melodious tune to flutter in the lake, so that
I can talk whispered with you ..........

I am very sad if I do not live with my family, let alone no children even within one hour

I do hope it all works out for you and wifey. Enjoy the sushi, desert, junk, the movie and what ever else follows ;).

I'm sure bubs will have a great time being doted on by the grandparents. And we'll still be here whenever you feel like posting. Enjoy spending time with your wife and definitely do that more often :D

goatsig

I miss salsa, too.
See you tomorrow! :)

far from our loved ones is a torture

You are going to out side for dinner it good opportunity to express more love

hopefully to destination safely @tarazkp

The amazing story of an amazing couple. Time with family is the precious time of our life.
Cheers
@srkattel

Amazing life sir guess i've to. Thank you so much for sharing your felling sir ........................:):):)..........................................

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From Through what you wrote I noticed that you love your wife