Hello, nice post, made me think a lot thanks. It seems you're learning a lot too, about people, about culture, there arent many things as complex as human behaviour, besides when you struggle with other people you also learn a lot about yourself. I find interesting the impulse you had to confront this people, you say the program ties you up, i think that's a good thing, we all have social restrains, they are necessary for interaction, if you say everything you think everytime, you'll probably end up alone.
I invite you to check my post on human behaviour.
I'll start following you hope to read more.
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