My next Decision

in life •  8 years ago 

Do you think is possible to fall in love with someone you've never seen before.
After graduating from higher institution, what was the first thing that came to your mind.
I need reply and everyone's opinion. I need to make a decision and it look like am alone in the world,
I need support, to stand on my feet to take my next decision,so please share your experience with me.
thanks

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As a person that falls in love easily I think it is possible. I had never fell in love with someone I have never seen, but I do fell in love with someone the first time we met once. I recommend you to see this person as soon as possible and say your feelings to him/her as soon you know what you feel and you both know each other enough so it will not be embarrasing. The faster you do it, the less you will suffer in case it does not work.

I have not graduated yet, but then I want to search for a job, maybe try to get a driving permission and start searching for a partner.

I hope we can help you with your decisions, but we cannot choose for you. Don´t choose just the most popular option, think about it and choose wisely for yourself. Good luck.

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

This is a tricky one, I am not going to lie. I've been in this situation a couple of times. It can work out for the better and it can also go left. You will never know. Anybody can impersonate someone else and you would never know because you've never seen the person.
You have to think about this, how do you know that person says they are who they say they are?
That person could be a murderer or a stalker for all you know.
There are people who come up missing due to situations like this. I suggest that you proceed with caution if you one day decide to meet this person.

Well that's a lot of negativity there you should take chances sometimes, maybe they could be the best memories you would have in your life @vivdouan

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

I believe everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I am speaking based on my experiences as I did say that I've been through this situation a few times. This is not meant to discourage her.. That's why I stated if she decides to one day meet the person face to face that she should proceed with caution..
My response was to not discourage her from pursing love. I hope that for anyone, but to simply proceed with caution for safety to meeting the person in real life for the first time is what anyone should do. I've heard stories and know people who came up missing...

Well then that's good. I misinterpreted your comment, I am sorry for that.

Oh no, no need to be sorry at all

I also stated that it could work for the better or it could go left.. I've always been a positive person but you have to also remember to think with logic

I agree with you now.

@tokelawal Well, It's better to meet the person some times before falling completely in love with him.so I would say you should hold your feelings for a while. Because even if that person is that much good as you thought, it may happen your opinions, your ideas, your life and a lot of stuff doesn't match. So spend some time first.
After graduating, the first thing that came to my mind is to get a good job, earn a lot of money and enjoy life, but sadly most of that didn't work.

You may consider everyone's opinion but You should make your own decision.
Don't feel alone anymore, because one who don't have anyone have steemians on his/her side :)