The girls themselves are to blame for their loneliness!

in life •  7 years ago 

 

Can you sit down right now and clearly formulate what kind of man you need?
Stop constantly complaining to your friends about your loneliness. Sometimes,  it can be useful, but if you are endless (and for me it means at least  once a week) meet with them to discuss the lack or lack of men, then  it's time to change something in yourself 



 

It does not matter what you do, the main thing is to direct the energy in the right direction. Remember that any relationship is the exchange of energy. And when asked what kind of man you need, remember that this is the person to whom you will give your energy. Who do you want to give it to? An honest answer to this question instantly removes all unnecessary  and especially so-called goats out of your life, which for some reason  endlessly appear on your way. 


 Girls themselves are to blame for their loneliness: Anna Sahakyan's blog

Formulate is very difficult. I have this for many years. Imagine, you write - he is rich. I  know a couple who, from the school bench, everything was perfect with  finances, but the guy got money from the pope, and at a conscious age,  without any financial problems, he did not know how to apply himself. I tried to organize a business, but since there was no financial motivation, I abandoned it, sat at home, and raised a belly. His wife did not respect him, and in the end the matter ended in divorce.

I was sad for both of them. And for the guy, because I saw how he lacks female support, admiration and love. And for a friend who stopped respecting her husband. It is much more important that a man can earn with the help of a favorite business. This will allow him to rise in the event of financial problems. And in life there is everything - look deeper!

A friend of mine often says: "I want a man who will buy me a bag." I also knew such things, I bought a bag, only they had almost no sex - well, this question did not interest him.

Yes what far to go? I myself had a situation when I just wanted shoes. It was on vacation in Turkey, and I remembered about postponed sandals after the party. I went to the store along the way, tried on, started bargaining. I  was followed by a man from the same party, we exchanged a couple of  jokes and eventually I did not even notice how he bought me these shoes.  Already on the street he told me that he was married and asked for a phone. We did not see each other again.
 

Watch the happy couple. They are few, but they are. I know, sometimes, when you are alone, it can be painful. But you will understand what brings them happiness, and will bring the same happiness to you. Satisfy their positive energy, usually from the lovers come such fluids, which all around fill with love. And fall in love!



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Nice piece.
Sometimes when you are not alone it can be lonely.

yes!thanks!