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Loneliness

Seems to be a major issue these days and finding a partner in life seems to be the only sane, long term cure. Also we often feel that there needs to be someone besides us so we can strive harder to achieve the things we want in life. Someone that will shorten the way towards happiness and overall a good life.
As I always say, life is meant to be shared as an experience, sadly the search for a partner nowadays has been bombarded with tons of social conditioning, which fuses into personal conditioning.

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Too much criteria

Are used to find the so-called "perfect person".
First of all, let's begin with the fact that the main criteria which 90% of society has with finding a partner is the BODY, this is one third of the whole human complex. This means either one follows his sensory reception or he follows his heart by looking at the mind and spirit too.
On a deeper level the BODY criteria can be divided into other case specific sections, making the whole concept even harder.

Looking only at the body criteria isn't a crime and works out in some cases because like attracts like, therefore people with similar interests will eventually find each other, but the main issue is rather sustaining a relationship based on 1/3 of the whole picture. In most cases things never work out, leading to a resentment and judgemental outcome of the latent unseen aspects of the person we so much liked at the beginning.
Afterwards this leads to other phenomenon like: being demoralized, depression, lack of self worth or over self worth, hatred towards opposite gender, resentment.
These are some of the things that are derived from unhealthy relationships.

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The Bigger Picture

Would be to find someone who matches mind, body and spirit requirements.
Of course, this makes things even harder but at the end you will be in the most healthy relationship ever, something like having an extension of yourself. The mind will help you reach your goals, the body will bring you pleasure and the spirit will uplift you even in the darkest of hours. From my personal perspective, whom ever restricts my lifestyle isn't meant for me as we obviously are walking different paths.

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Thanks for Reading (Be Free)