But we also need to remember that "someone" is also a person with the same emotions and struggles that we have, and to dump everything on them without keeping that in mind, is what also often leads to things like this happening to people who "never realized they were struggling too" in the first place. We need to be able to lean on EACHOTHER, in times of need, without reciprocation someone will always end up suffering to the breaking point, where was the community that this guy helped so much when HE was in need? I am sure he could have used some emotional support after conducting that funeral, but doubt anyone even thought to ask how he was doing or feeling, I am not trying to assume anything here my point is only that no one is superman, to get through this life, we need to be there for one another, even those who are so good at being there for others and hising their own hurt.