Hate is nothing but NEGATIVE LOVE.

HATE is often misunderstood by people as some sort of an evil emotion, a product of a sheer evil mindset. Rather, it is something totally different from that. Hate is just negative love.

Hate is nothing but love transmuted into anger through disappointment. When people hate you, it is never that they really hate you, it is just that they wish you ill because did not give them what they wanted. Had you given them what they wanted, they would have loved you. It is often people's disappointment in you that makes them start hating you. It is when they stop being passionate about you and start to make themselves not care about you and this naturally leads to a lot of resentment that you see as hate. Hate really is nothing but negative love.

The primary cause of most hatred is disappointment. This is one of the reasons why the most entitled people are also the most hateful people. Since these people have always been entitled and since they have always possessed expectations bordering on tyrannical level, they feel disappointed at the slight obstruction to their entitledness.

A key thing to remember in life is that it is perfectly okay to be hated by others. In fact, you should be willing to be hated. The reason is that unless you are willing to be hated, you will spend your entire existence trying to please others so that you may not disappoint them for which they may hate you. It is a unrealistic goal and a lost battle trying not to disappoint anyone as there will always be people who will feel disappointed and will therefore hate you for it. In short, if you do not wish to be a slave to the wants of others, don't mind being hated.