How popular are you?
Well, that doesn't really matter ! I mean, you're not the center of the Universe . And neither was Jesus or Hitler 😉, or the guy selling ice cream at the corner of the street. Yeah you have family or maybe friends that are interested in parts of your life and help you at times when you need. What about your boss, the coworkers - do they notice how you're dressed today, how you were at the meeting? Probably not, as they don't care about you as much as you do? And hell no, very probably not even yourself give a shit most of the times in the day about what's going on with you!
Oh come on, you know what i'm talking about right? That moment when you light up a cigarette to be cool? That shit's not good for you man; eating a sandwich at 🍔 McD ? How much of that chicken breast is meat, 20% ?? Crossing the street on Red Light? Maan you color blind, or try to kill yourself?
What about your cousin? You two are close; but lately you started to like her soft hugs and her smell? Dude don't even go there! That's for Game of Thrones only 😆! Yeah, they do that in that porn action movie.
And you remember that moment you met this beautiful girl in this bar in Bangkok, and you danced all night, shared stories, had some good holding hands moments, and you thought she's the one when she asked you to come to her hotel room while mentioning you're the first guy she's ever asked to do that !? You're there, and she now closes the lights while fixating you with her big eyes, Ed Sheeran on the background, and she kisses you faster and faster, raising her body up to your lips, adrenaline pumping in, she asks you to open your mouth, and in the darkest room possible - instead of licking a sweet asian pussy -as soon as you open your jaw, a thick object invades your mouth going down your throat,the ballsack hitting your chin like a wreckin' ball, and all of a sudden Sheeran turns into hardcore Marilyn Manson!! Yeah dude, you suck dick 😆!! You quickly recover from the shock, throw her him over and quickly grab your clothes to run out of there :)) ! That's definitely not good for you lol.
Yes it did boy. But guess what, no one cares. No one remembers your mistakes. Here and there few will have faded memories, but that's it. Why would you care what people think how you look, why would you be anxious of other's judgements about you? This way of thinking will often lead you to take poor decisions about how you live your life, how you lay out your emotional energy or what you focus on. (And of course, your naughty habits.)
So don't try to live for others, don't try to impress them, or to make others to like you . Cause you may never be fully satisfied no matter the rewards or the praises you receive. You're free to try better, free to do better and learn something new and healthier for you. There's a lot of garbage we've been taught to live with and to incorporate in our lives: like work hard to earn bags of money; go out with friends and spend what you've earned; buy a house, a car etc. Leave all that crap behind, cause nobody gives a dime anyway. If you live a balanced and healthy life, and be happy doing what you think is best, then live it at its fullest! Cause life is short anyway, so why not just be happy doing it your way 😉
So let's leave all the preconceptions, mentalities or other worries we may have about fitting in, and just be yourself, be (a responsible) crazy soul. Are you ready to reset your life, and truly live?
PS: *this post was not meant to offend anyone of whatever sex, religion, sexual orientation etc. You can't make a joke without raising an eyebrow anyway haha, so if you got offended, then this post is not for you.
*also, i will create the tag #idontcare for this post; if you have any examples from your life that you think you want to or should change, or something else that's wrong in the world and you want to write about it, please use this tag so that i can come over and read your thoughts, experiences and to appreciate your post, with a full upvote.
Meanwhile, Live Long and Prosper. 😊
The end.
Yep you are totally right. You should not live for other people so that they will like you. You must live your life the way you want it to be. I agree with the 'they do not care about you' but keep in mind that if you neighbor feels unhappy, you can feel his energy too. We are all connected with invisible wires like a wireless internet but then on energy / aura level.
We all come here for a reason, if it is as a bad guy or a young innocent child or as a famous singer or as a gardener or as a dictator. We all are born for a reason.
And keep in mind that It is for many people hard to live the life they want to live in. Sometimes they are born in a good loving family and the chance that they get what they want is getting bigger. Sometimes they are born in a bad family with hate, divorced parents, poverty.... then the chance to fulfill your wishes is almost non-existent and your live is more like a survival of the fittest....
Thanks for this post !
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That makes sense indeed, when you are born and live in unfavourable conditions. In that case, it would be a more refined choice of choosing what to hear and whom to follow to make it easier for your life even though you disagree with the person.
Though in the end if you stick to your cores no or to the value of them, then it will eventually build you up and extract you from that situation the way i see it to be. The problem is, everyone nowadays is dressing all this suits and portray a person that they are not. I've seen it years in a row, and just hit me again recently. My way of action to this is to let them go. If they want to be near you or with you, they need to change, cause what they say and what they do is in contradiction to what i believe is right, and if they want to be their way then i dont care anymore and i wont try to pursue them for a change. Is their loss anyway . And like them, there're waay too many people around. SO it's not about choosing them, but selecting out of them.
Thank you for your thoughts @miguelr .
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