5 Things You MUST Do Before You Turn 30-{Just for Men}

in life •  7 years ago  (edited)

what's going on guys it's Abdullah here and in this Article I'm gonna tell you five things that every man needs to do before you turn  if you want to live up to your full potential 

1-Quit your job

right now the global economy is as volatile as ever and job turnover rates are as fast as ever, gone are the days where you can just work your first job for  years get a pension and then retire this means that you would be silly just to accept your first job offer and then work it until you get fired, look man you owe it to yourself to quit your job at least one time and to experiment with something else, otherwise you might end up looking back  years down the line when you're too old to really experiment with your career and wonder what you could have been, if I had never quit my first job as a software engineer and also put my second job as a personal trainer I would never have gotten to where I am today doing what I love.

2-create something 

most people go through life just existing waking up going to school or going to work and then maybe working out and then after that just relaxing and playing video games I watch it some Netflix and this is so devastating because if you just go with the flow then you're never gonna experience the growth and the just pure happiness that comes along with creating something of your own, so maybe you want to do what I do and you want to make dope youtube videos or maybe you're someone who wants to try and make funny t-shirts or maybe you're into music you want to produce some bumpin music that people love regardless when you create something of your own on one hand it's gonna create a business opportunity if you could good at what you're doing and on the other hand it's just gonna allow you to grow a lot as a Person.

3-Rite of passage

and this is something that was common in more ancient primitive cultures for example in ancient Sparta they would send out their children who were destined to become warriors once per year with only a knife in order to kill specific people now unfortunately today unless you join the military and go through a boot camp there is nothing that's gonna force your initiation into manhood and this is why I recommend that you create your own rite of passage the easiest way to do this is just for one month straight every single day do something that forces you to step outside of your comfort zone so for example approach a girl do you find attractive or confronts a bully or ask your boss for a raise.

4-Move at least once 

I could have taken it to the extreme but had I never left the little home town that I grew up in like most of my friends then I wouldn't be where I am today when you moved to a new city or a new country you force yourself to learn new things, make new friends and become self-reliant, it's sort of an easy way to force yourself to expand your comfort zone and I know a lot of you guys are probably thinking that this is too expensive and it's not practical you need to realize if you move somewhere like Mexico or Columbia or Spain even the cost of living is way cheaper than a typical US city so do yourself a favor and move yourself.

5-Improve your game :

look bro I know how painful it can be if you're not good with girls getting rejected or just not being noticed by your crush can make you put so much pressure on yourself and make you feel so depressed that you just want to give up altogether on the prospect of getting your cool girlfriend or getting laid consistently but here's the thing no matter how much you just want to focus on your career or focus on your hobbies and ignore this part of your life you have to realize that, all of us fundamentally crave sex and affection and compassion, so if you ignore this it's just gonna undermine your confidence and your self-esteem so you need to take control of your love life I got anyway I hope all that makes sense those are  things that every man should do before you turn.

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