THE LIGHT IS GREEN, DRIVE

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When it comes to dating, most men fear rejection. It takes a lot of confidence for a man to walk up to a lady and ask her out. It is incredibly easy to know when a man is interested in a lady just like a lady can tell when a member of her sex is interested in a guy because she under the female "signs" of interest.

Gender aside, human beings in general are pretty hard to read when it comes to attraction.we are all guilty of giving off mixed signals and being incapable of reading signs from other people. Admittedly, though at times the signals ladies give off can be particularly hard to decipher. In an ideal world, everyone would be upfront about his or her expectations.

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Many men think that women are rude and full of ego when they don't send a verbal message of how they feel about them but they are the ones who do not understand the nonverbal or underlying messages that women are sending. These messages are sometimes unconsciously sent by women.

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN A WOMAN IS INTERESTED IN YOU.

For the sake of clarity, I will be splitting the "how" into two. This post will contain three ways to know when a woman is interested in you as a man and another post will have the other part and the conclusion of the post.

*You are a topic for discuss with her friends.

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When a lady is interested or into you, the first set of people she talks to about you is her girlfriends. Do not get me wrong, she is not a gossip. That is just the way it works in a woman's world. How do you know this? A hangout with her friends will do the revealing. During the hangout and they ask you questions about yourself and then confirm your answers as something she has mentioned before like "oh yeah, she was telling me you are great at photography", or when you answer questions in a way that interests them and they smile and break eye contact to look at their friend and then back at you to continue the conversation, there my friend is a proof she likes you.
Ladies only talk about men who are worth talking about with their friends

She is very comfortable talking with you

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Ladies most times are reserved when they meet a guy for the first time. They take their time to study you and understand if you have the personality they are looking for. Once they find you attractive they break the ice and every topic becomes an interesting topic especially if she is usually not extremely talkative and usually waits for someone to start a conversation. Crack a joke. It doesn't matter how bad it is, she will laugh. If she is not into you, you will get a pitying smile or a condenscending comment.

Personality Change:

**Looking good is good business for a lady but a lady is interested in a man she goes all out to dress

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The lipstick comes out and the nice cologne. She wants to be noticed and complimented by you. She might become more sociable than normal,laughing more or more boisterous to impress you. I remember when I was into a male colleague I was sure liked me but hasn't approached me maybe for the fear of rejection, I would always go to work looking all dolled up and beautiful and if our paths don't cross,I find an excuse go the administrative department just so he can see me and pass a good compliment and I then I smile and flirt a little with him lso passing good compliments. That was me letting him know in my own that I liked him more than he thinks although sadly it took another female colleague to point that out to him

Relationships are beautiful when you are in it with someone who feels exactly the same way you do.

Check out my page for a follow up post and the concluding part on the Light is green, Drive.

Please kindly drop your comments on more ways to know when a lady is interested in a man, it will surely help in the follow up blog to this post. Observations and discussions are equally welcomed.