How to create impact?

We all have the power to initiate the spark of enlightenment in someone or to kill their biggest dreams. You already tried it on yourself.

Occasionally we are too stupid, or afraid, to acknowledge what is really happening in our lives. We neglect the way we feel and how some dots are way out of the line. Pursuing the goal, or reaching out to what we know we deserve can be quite overwhelming and exhausting. How in the world could you impact people in that state of mind?

But the right question is in which way you want to impact them, and why. There are a lot of ways to impact someone's life. But the best one is to listen. Not only to another person but listen to your thoughts as well. You will soon find out the motives behind your willingness and intent to impact. Your motives are the foundation on how big your impact would be.

The next step is to do the same for others. Find out what is their spark, what motivates them. All you need is the right questions and the good ear, and remarkable memory in your head or on your phone. Write it down. Create your own database of human uniqueness. You will soon find out how most of us have similar sufferings or motivators.

The miracle happens when you care and allocate your attention. This is your secret weapon. Bring more awareness about where your attention is during the conversation or your speech. So many times I was listening more to my reply in the had, than profoundly what other person is saying by every cell of their body. So, the secret lies in you.

It is all about creating an impact on your inner life and quality that you will bring wherever you go. By changing the way you relocate and use your time and energy, you will have the biggest impact on the people you interact with.