Only you can save yourself

From the very moment of birth, people have begun to accept the help of others. However, the "reliance" of many young people "at home by their parents and by their friends" has gone far beyond and greatly deviates from the need for external forces to help this normal "reliance" and evolve into "only parents and friends Rely on "the psychology of dependency, and put their hopes of establishing themselves in society entirely on parents and friends.

Those who believe in "living with their parents at home" are often young people who can not help themselves in their own daily life to open their mouths, unwilling to wear their clothes, or unable to establish their own business independently from their parents' power, status and money. Obviously such a young man can not be self-reliant in his life and make a difference in his career.

One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well? Farmers racked their brains to find ways to save the donkey, but a few hours later, the donkey was still painfully wailing. In the end, the farmer decided to give up. He thought the donkey was old and not worth the effort to save it, but in any case, the well still had to be buried.

The farmer then invited neighbors to help bury the donkey in the well to save its suffering. Farmer's neighbors staff a shovel? Start digging dirt into the dry well.

When the donkey aware of their situation, just beginning to cry very miserable. But unexpectedly, after a while the donkey was quiet. The farmer looked curiously down to the bottom of the well. The scene in front of him surprised him. When the earth shoveling into the well fell on the back of the donkey, the donkey's response was amazing. It shook the earth aside and stood Shovel into the earth above the heap. In this way, the donkey shook the earth all the people shoveling it in the bottom of the well, and then stood up again.

Soon, the donkey proudly rose to the wellhead and ran quickly in the crowd's amazement!

No one can save the donkey. Only when it abandons pessimism and negativity and understands that it can only rely on itself to save itself, is it possible for fate to give it a surprise when it is too late. Human beings as higher animals, for this time the understanding of self-rescue theory, should not be inferior to the animal's survival instincts, right?

Never put hope on others. At the critical moment, others can push you, but it can not completely replace you.

Others can drive for you, but can not walk for you; can do business for you, but can not feel for you. The way to life depends on yourself to walk, and success depends on yourself. God help self-help, successful self-help.

In the journey of life, sometimes we inevitably fall into various crises, and to get rid of these crises, do not always rely on others, learn to save yourself by their own.

Learn to make a snail, even if the slow pace, but also strive to go forward step by step.

No one should do anything for you, because your own way to go on your own, you have to be responsible for yourself.

The compulsory course of life is to accept the impermanence, life elective is timely dedication.

It's hard to get things done, whether in life or at work. But everyone will grow up in experience.

My own way to go, although the bumpy, though bumpy, but not bad, but also to make myself more confident, we must rely on their strong and brave go.

The journey of thousands of miles begins at the foot of the pond. Any dream that requires spiritual hardworking needs a down-to-earth work-hard spirit. Only in the baptism of the struggle can we reach the other side of the dream.

The path to study, the way of life, no matter how excellent mentors and sages met, the way forward and the bridge to success, ultimately have to rely on their own past.

Please remember: life's way, walk by yourself step by step, can really protect you, is your own personality choice and cultural choice. In turn, the same can really hurt you, too, the same choice.