First recognize your location. Everyone's location is different, and the things you see are different. From different angles, a starfruit has different appearances of ellipse and five stars. However, it is just a starfruit, and the thing itself has not changed.
I have heard this sentence: "All misfortunes in life are mainly due to standing in the wrong position."
If they are placed in the wrong location, they will lose value. If people stand in the wrong place, they will easily get lost and feel that the prosperity and nobility in front of them are what they deserve.
A smart person should understand that what you have and what you give you are actually two things. The safest and most stable life always stands in a position that matches one's abilities.
Only by knowing where you are can you stay away from arrogance and reduce mistakes. Focus on the work at the current position, continue to work hard, and move forward steadily. Virtue and position do not match, you will suffer losses. There is a specialization in the art industry, and only in the field that you are familiar with can you create greater value!
Recognize your own value. In many cases, the direction is wrong and you should give up decisively. Recognizing your value and choosing the right direction is half the battle. Sticking to the right path and giving up the wrong path are equally important!
When you lament that you have nothing to do, you may just not find a battlefield that suits you. There is no natural mediocrity in this world, only talents who have misplaced their talents.
The tortoise cannot run on the ground, but the tortoise always swims faster than the hare in the water. This tells us not to put it in the wrong place, recognize our value, find the right direction and put it in the right place. We can't let the resourceful Kong Ming go to an immediate confrontation, let alone let Lu Bu embroider in the attic.
To fully understand one's own abilities, psychologically, there is a "dark effect".
Some people tend to overestimate their abilities, and the worse a person’s abilities, the more serious the overestimation.
In other words, the stupid people become more self-righteous.
If you slap a swollen face to fill a fat man and do things beyond your ability, you will eventually suffer.
A true wise man can recognize the limits of his abilities and know how to stop in time.
One climber was ready to conquer Mount Everest, but when he climbed to a height of 7000 meters, he still had enough physical strength to retreat.
Many people were confused, and he replied: "For me, 7000 meters is already a miracle."
Although it is only a step away from reaching the top, he knows his limits, and being able to do so will only endanger his life.
What a person is most worried about is not incompetence, but overestimating his own abilities, doing his best, or even more doing his best. Recognize your abilities so you can understand everything and learn easily. Use your abilities appropriately, not underestimate yourself, let alone swell your vanity. Advance and retreat with a degree, recognize your own upper limit. It will not climb high or lose weight and will not do nothing.
In addition, recognize the weight of yourself in the hearts of others. One of the signs of a person's maturity is to understand that 99% of the things that happen every day are meaningless to others. Do your own thing well, lend a helping hand to others at the right time, and don't influence others' lives. Because everyone is irreplaceable.
After all, everyone is an independent individual.
No matter what kind of relationship or status, don't care about yourself too much. No one in this world cannot be without anyone. Sometimes, once you turn around, it feels like a stranger, rather than entangled in the relationship with anyone. It will be better to learn to live your own life.
The best mentality for people to get along is that they are close to each other and keep a proper distance.
In this life, only by recognizing yourself can you go far steadily. Reality, there will be few twists and turns because of your wiseness!