The easiest and one of the most common statement in circulation is 'I Love You'... The hardest thing to do is knowing when those words actually mean anything... Most people, girls and guys have been hurt believing in those three combined words and this causes them to alter their person making them believe there's no such thing as love... Can you really say that because you had a bad day today then all the days of your life will be bad?! NO!... Like a friend will say 'A is only equal to B when all other factors of nature are constant'; which we know they arent... How do you find true love?... First you believe- believe in its existence..no matter how badly you have been treated in your past, never take it as a point of reference in your new relationship because, you'll force your relationshp to end...Once you start to think of the flaws your past partner possessed and you make it a point of reference to rating your new partner, you tend to overlook every other loving thing he does because you have set focus on the flaws of your new partner and you try to measure him up with your last... Like i always say, 'love never hurt- its people that hurt'..and the truth is people are not the same...Even though Anatomically most people are the same, everyone has his own experience that has groomed him and made him different from the next person..but no matter how different a person is, he is still referred to as a Man and for everyman there's his woman...BELIEVE... Secondly you have to learn how to 'TUF'- Tolerate, Understand and Forgive.. Humans are imperfect and attributes such as greed, envy, lust almost always find ways to create temptations... Few people like me have learnt the ways to tame these attributes of imperfection-ok, maybe i lied about the 'Me' part- Money, flashy cars and houses will always get the best of most girls, but try as much as possible as a guy to understand and make plenty of it so that your partner doesnt have a reason to look outside...as for d ladies, there'll always be a girl with bigger ass, badda curves and bigger breasts than you do and they most times get the best of us...so try and understand..but give to your partner what no other girl can give to him... In terms of sex, support, knowledge, advice, anything at all that makes you different from other girls... Whenever your partner cheats on you, it doesnt have to be the end of the relationshp, thats where tolerance and forgiveness comes in... Tolerance means taking crap while hoping on a better tomorrow...in other words, getting hurt while having faith that things will get better.. But if your head count of sadness to happiness in the relationshp is a 100:1, its advisable to run as fast as you can outta the relationshp; "cuz na die u dey"... The truth is that we all have our flaws, but we were all made to love- maybe not him, maybe not her but there's that person that exists sitting and praying upon the stars that you find them soon..
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