Ummi, while I agreed with you on a PERSON need to be loyal not in word but action, majority sadly do not appreciate Loyalty, I never cheated any of my women at that time and they end up leaving me or being with some else and they are women...hence is not tide to a gender. and sorry I notice you ask ladies about this, and not men, but I read it and I think it has a piece of you belief a women has to be and is interesting to point this out, wonderful though, but naive. Sorry if it sound rough is not mean to be like that is just my opinion. keep motivating women to be more open and honest.