One saying says that you can not choose the person you love with, because it happens at random.
However, a new study suggests that we have more control than we think in our hearts and heads. This is because psychologists have discovered that it is possible that you will increase or diminish your love for someone by your own will, Telegraph reports.
This phenomenon they call "the regulation of love".
Even if we could not control love completely, at least we can give it some form.
Psychologists, after their experiments, suggest following the following tips to fall back in love with your partner:
Make minor changes - this may be your partner's embrace before going to work, or the warm greeting after coming back. These are small things, but obviously make a difference.
Smile your partner - the smile releases dopamine, and the chances are great that he too will turn your smile back on you.
Think positively - focus on what you like about your partner, imagine happy times in the future, and write them somewhere.
Have sex - even if you do not like it, sex is important because numerous studies have shown that people look more enthusiastic about sex after sex.
Do new things together - this is proven to help couples feel more lured to each other.