WHEN HE SEES YOU AS AN OPTION

Greetings of peace fellow Steemians!
Today I’ll give you some signals to know if your man does not consider you as his priority. I hate to break it to you girl but brace yourself for it may hurt a little bit. HAHAHA hugs and kisses

It really hurts to know that the one you love doesn’t need you to be in his life the way you wanted him to be in yours right? Especially, when you need him the most. Thus, I’m here to give you real and genuine signals on how you’ll know if you’re not included on his priority list. Incidentally, this is based on my personal experiences on my past relationships so feel free to add on your own insights, suggestions and comments. Happy reading everyone!

You will feel rejected most of the time.

You want to talk to him but you will never ever receive any quick and apparent confirmation on his end. All you can hear is some broken promises and excuses of how busy he had been.

You will be the one who’s making all the sacrifices, while you? You get nothing in return.

You’re there all the time. When you’re in your bad days, don’t expect him to listen or to be there as you did for him. DON’T EXPECT ANYTHING; otherwise you’ll get nothing but disappointment.

You will probably feel used.

More often than not, he will only turn to you when he needs something from you, because for him you're only there for specific needs. That's what makes you feel being used because 'helping' isn't considered as being used as long as it means 'helping each other'.

You will always be the wrong person and the only one to blame.

As you become irritated on him out of being rejected all the time, you tend to say or do things because you feel bad and terrible inside. Love isn’t logical anyway so you’ll probably end up being the one to blame since you’ve been too focused on your relationship alone. Overly dramatic as some may call it.

You will start to learn on how to be happy alone.

You’ll learn how to be independent, and you will the need to take full responsibility of your own life. You’ll start to think about changing your priorities if you don’t want to break your own heart anymore.

It hurts to know that you’re not a priority for someone you love! But this shouldn’t make you feel less. It is clearly about them! And definitely, it is your choice. It’s whether you accept it or leave. On the other hand, be positive about it, there’s no perfect relationship. Not being a priority doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you with all that he has, he does but not the same way you do love him.