Yes, we all can feel paranoid, insecure, or worried sometimes about our relationships, especially the one with our man!
These concerns can be caused by many things. Sometimes there are prevalent and obvious issues, other times we may just have an uneasy feeling in the pit of our stomach, and sometimes we’re hormonal and easily triggered…However when the nagging, worrying thoughts or feelings are present, we need to sort our feelings out!
So here are 5 IMPORTANT & GENERIC truths to consider:
ONE - He is in communication with you each day!
The amount each individual communicates of course varies, depending upon personalities and needs, but if he loves you he will be thinking about you and want to talk with you about what’s happening, or has happened in his day. This is pretty simple and important. A man who loves you doesn’t ‘go cold’, or have ups and downs in his feelings for you. He doesn’t keep you guessing, make excuse, after excuse, after excuse, or keep you ‘on a string’. No he doesn’t do these things because he loves you, and has therefore ‘found’ what he wants!
Also remember, a healthy man who loves you will not ignore you, or keep you guessing in regards to his intentions. He will talk to you respectfully each day, and will be equally pleased when you initiate contact. The flip side to note here is the level of communication will be a healthy one, and therefore he will not continually bombard you, or pester you with a high, unhealthy level of contact which is not actually love, it is obsession and possessive behavior! Equally his communication will be kind and considerate (the majority of the time because we all loose our cool once in a while) - His communication will be pleasant and simple, he will not twist things against you and make you feel to blame when he's to fault!
TWO - He will want to provide for you and not take from you!
A man who loves a woman will want to bless her by helping to improve her life. He will willingly want to carry some of the burdens. He will not want to be a burden himself, or use her finances. He may not be able to provide you with everything you want (and honestly he shouldn’t because that’s unhealthy of you to expect that) but he will ALWAYS provide you with SUPPORT by being with you when it counts. Remember, a man who loves you will take positive actions towards becoming an important, trustworthy person in your life.
Three - He will want to see you flourish, so he can be proud of you!
A man who truly loves a woman will not want to control her, or stifle her growth as a person. A man who does this loves only himself and is most likely an unmotivated and frustrated individual. A man who truly loves a woman will want to see her flourish by achieving her goals and becoming a more mature and better person over the years. He will encourage you and support you in the good, and hard times.
Four - He will humble himself and swallow his pride when it counts!
A man who truly loves a woman will not be perfect. He will still make mistakes, but he will also humble himself and work towards the good of the relationship to stay together.
Five - He won’t hide things from you!
A man who loves you will understand that you need honesty and when you want him to have accountability. He may not like it at first if he’s not used to it but he will understand it’s a way for trust to be built and for your love to grow deeper and will agree. A man who loves you won’t have anything to hide anyway! Be wary if he always seems to have a ‘foggy memory’. He also won’t have deceptive apps for communicating with other people, or an excessive amount of devices, emails or social media accounts…and if he did he will get rid of them when he falls in true love.
Truly hope this helps!
About the author:
Hi, I'm an Australian well-being professional, currently teaching fine art well-being classes. I predominately write about relationships and well-being topics, but I also share some well-being art posts from time to time.