Falling in Love With Someone You Like

Falling in love with someone you find interest in is not something you just jump into, first of all you go slow. When you are first getting to know someone, it is important to avoid sharing too much about yourself too soon. It is common for some people share too much of themselves in the early stages of a relationship because they want to seem honest and forthright. But sharing too much too soon can also be overwhelming for the other person. It also makes you less mysterious, which is part of the fun of falling in love
For example, you should avoid discussing topics like your ex, your mean boss, or your personal finances.
Get to know your love interest. It is important to find out if you are compatible with this nice person (and if they really are nice). Ask open-ended questions to get to know them better and get a better feel for their personality. The questions that you ask early on should not be too invasive or too personal. They should be friendly and fun to discuss. For example, some questions you might ask on a first date include.
Be confident. Confidence and self-esteem are important factors in falling in love. People who have low self-esteem may have a hard time of falling in love because of feelings that they are unworthy. If you lack confidence, you may want to spend some time working on yourself before you try to get into a relationship. Or, you can try to fake confidence until you feel confident.
For example, stand up tall, smile, and make eye contact with people. Doing so will give others the impression that you are confident and you may start to feel more confident just by acting this way. Someone who is nice should be very interested in finding a confident person to date, whereas a mean person may dislike this quality because you will seem harder to control.
Continue to make time for you. It is common for people to become so wrapped up in a new relationship that they stop doing things that matter to them. But not making enough time for you and your interests can be bad for you and bad for your new budding relationship. Remember to make enough time for you and your interests no matter how much you want to skip them to extra spend time with your new love interest.
Maintaining your personal time should not be a problem for a nice person. Just be wary if the person gets upset at you for wanting some personal time. This may indicate that the person is not as nice as you thought.
Let the person know you want to keep seeing them. It is important to make your intentions known to this nice person if you want to continue seeing them. If you are enjoying spending time with the person, let them know. You don’t need to declare long-term intentions in the early stages of a relationship, but you do need to say that you enjoy spending time with the person and that you’d like to keep seeing them.
Try saying, “I’ve had a great time on our last few dates and I’d like to keep seeing you if that is something you are interested in.”